Our design is to be creating our reality with our thoughts and words, as we go from moment to moment, using our wisdom and our creativity to make the best choices for our life path, and the world at large.

We are not designed to be firing questions at one another as in so doing so we are directing another’s consciousness around.

They are not us, and we are not them, 😉 and it is for each of us to say the next thing that comes to us to say, to create OUR reality.    This is essential to get ourselves ON our path, and to stay ON our path.

A TIP~ If it is challenging to go straight from a habit of questioning another, to a habit of sharing what ‘comes to mind’, try this!

Begin with a question that will start this off, such as:

“Do you have anything you feel to say?”
“Do you want to say anything to me?”
“Is there anything you would like to share?”

These will help break the habit of directing another what to think of, AND develop the new habit of each human present sharing what THEY each want to share.

Historically people developed the questioning ‘skill’ to help in ‘making conversation’, considered a social skill, an ‘art’ and taught in finishing schools.  How many topics a ‘lady’ could speak on, part of schooling in various etiquette schools

If someone did not have something to share, they were asked questions to encourage them.  But a made-up conversation is just that, REMOVED from in the now, and in-the-moment-reality relating. It is off-track, off-path and unnatural and not part of our design.

Some one may not have something to share with very good reason.  This could be that they are ‘in development’ why make comments when they can be better suited to listen, ponder, dream, imagine, learn, create and process within?

Sometimes it is talking just because the silence is a cause of discomfort for us.  In this silence we are face with our selves. This is our time to check in on US, do what healing and clearing we need to do, to sense everything, to feel, to send our consciousness to other aspects of us.

Silence is a natural state for us, and we are not designed to be filling it with words.  Silence shapes our words, and gives them their substance!

I repeat: Our design is to be creating our reality with our thoughts and words, as we go from moment to moment, using our wisdom and our creativity to make the best choices for our life path, and the world at large. 🙂

About C'mon Be a Human Already!

Lover of life, love, joy and music and all that brings clarity to a planet in need. Author, transformative/self mastery educator, sound healer, & singer songwriter. I am particularly interested in all languages, history, bringing an understanding to and mastery of, our feelings and thoughts; helping people attain inner peace; healthy sexual expression, development of consciousness, and in so doing, bringing a balance of our true selves operating in harmony on earth. I can provide the answers, my life has given me this. We have just gone off course. ;) I was born into a living hell, where I was not allowed to speak -even to learn how- and I needed to employ military survival tactics as a toddler just to get around the house unharmed.;) I was forced to figure out life, or I was not going to survive, and I did so with completely unbiased eyes, as I could trust nothing that I was told by family who intended me harm. I started meditating in early childhood as just a natural instinct to run away as far as I could, behind my eyes . Figuring out what had caused my mother not to possess any natural maternal instinct, and why she couldn' t love me, enabled me much insight and gave cause for intense, undistracted research. Now it has been given the name Antisocial Personality Disorder/Narcissism/Sociopathy, but as her cruelty and control disorder were always accompanied by historical rules, orders, sayings and beliefs, I learned much of the 'knowledge' leading our species astray at the time. I wanted to be the best Human Being I could Be, and I wanted to know how. I ran away at 5 years old, with my 8 year old brother asking to come with me, but, having no where to go, I sat at the corner sweet shop realising this and returned in secret, unpacking my little case to 'stick it out'. So, living within her cruel, ignorant ways, while secretly studying what life was really all about, I noticed my life as a microcosm of what was happening large scale across the globe, which inspired me to share what I learned. : ) Many Blessings to you on your journey!

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