Speak Less. Feel More

Talking too much, or ‘over-talking’, makes life harder to decipher.

Over-talking clutters you up, disables the ‘time and place’ relevance-rational, dis-engages you from any other advices available to you, and makes it ridiculously impossible to be on your path!

Speak less, feel more and begin to identify that all important and crucial SPACE BETWEEN YOUR THOUGHTS.
It is in this space that the magic happens! : )

The Point Of Christmas!

So what is it all about this Christmas? Gratitude actually..♥.

What is going on in the thought level, is not nearly so important as what is happening at the feeling level and vibrational level of us. FEELING gratitude, is actually what this celebration is all about!
IT IS all about feeling love and appreciation for one another, for all you have, for what is in front of you…I do not care if you are given gifts ,or not, it is your ability to feel gratitude and to alter your vibrational state to this special state, that becomes the greatest gift, for all humanity and our entire planet! ♥
This is something my mother was never able to feel, or share, even when given a gift in a surrounds of expense. But this is not what it is about at all, and she is was the embodiment of that. She was all about appearances – the ‘best’ tree, the ‘best’ decorations, the best this and that.
But, best is a judgement statement, and put into it’s correct perspective here of Christmas…it is not really the best at all. FAR from it! Enjoy what you have..or have not. To feel gratitude IS THE POINT!! 🙂

Recent U.S School Shooting.

The man who took the gun to a school in U.S – as evident by his photo on the news -had the clear condition of ‘floating irises’. My mother had this.
It is an obvious psychopathic development that occurs when the iris (colored) part of the eye appears to float in the white of the eye, and is totally surrounded by white. It shows detachment from normal reactions, and is common place knowledge in those who study criminal psychology.
He simply was not able to be governed by his feelings, to be able to then have healthy thoughts, just like my mother. He was mental ill to the degree of being psychopathic, again like my own mother. So it is a human health issue, as well as a societal one, that can have psychopaths – like my mother and this man – ‘functioning’ within them, and developing within them.
It does take a time for mental illness to blossom to this degree. It is easy to prevent it’s development by teaching of what a human being actually is, such as with my Being Human Essentials Series. These give clear guidelines to those who otherwise feel very outcast and whose own ‘solution-seeking-creativity’ to feel better, may in fact interfere with the lives of others – such as with my own mother and her attempts to conspire for my own death, and all those children & teachers, who are now no longer alive.
May they pass to the light in complete peace, knowing that they have given a lesson to the entire world, to bring positive, loving change. ♥ : )

Happiest, Festiviest,;) Happenings To You All!

Grab any opportunity of celebrating! Jump on any opportunity of raising vibrations, where ever or whatever! Do not waste a second with thoughts of analyzing why, or whose story is the most accurate. Heaven knows they are all full of misconceptions, given the time, and historical reasons for distribution. The truth is, joining in celebration, ritual and tradition is a human thang! It matters absolutely not, what or which faith / religion / belief system you manifested here under!
Have fun, be merry and safely does it! : )

Human Overview Update

  • 1.Why we have the situations of deterioration.
  • 2. History behind education system.
  • 3. What can easily be done to improve it.

We have the situation on the planet now, where people can perform tasks of society, but can have little  – to no – idea of how to be a human being, or of what this is.  As a direct result, we as a species and our planet, are suffering greatly.

This comes as no surprise to me at all.  

It is in fact completely obvious to me and was expected.  Our further deterioration is anticipated unless we instil in our own society, the means to learn of ourselves.

The education system as we know it was to prepare people to perform a task, or a function, so that they could be employable, for the development of a society within a country.

Human health and wellbeing was not investigated at the time any of the systems were instigated.  There was no consideration of  a greater consequence to any actions taken, or any ability to do this.

As economies themselves are suffering the result of mass ill-health, it would seem timely for simple Human Essentials Studies to be included within the standard education system.

Historically, in Britain, children were sent to work to perform many of the menial tasks.  In fact much of the Industrial might of England of the Victorian Era, can be said to have come from the children working in mines and factories!

It was considered an improvement, with the idea of increasing the chances of better employment for the child, to have them receive education.   This was  the beginning of the school system, to prepare for work only.

The school system as we know it, was not started with any idea of preparing developing human beings to be adult human beings.  It was not even started with a knowledge of what this was.

We have succeeded in creating a society that relies upon job training, and many people have achieved retirement plans, superannuation and well deserved world holidays.

My own British family are among the people holidaying around the world now.  Their desire to travel and buy things in foreign countries creates jobs there also.  They have retired, they are doing what they feel they should be doing at their age, and what they have been ‘taught’ to do.

The thing is – and with love and respect to them – they have not the development and knowledge of what they are as human beings.  It is not even a subject they can speak on.  

My own mother was a teacher in Britain and in Australia, and she had no respect for children – by her own admission – or any idea of how to be a human.

We have a human health crisis and an Earth health crisis.  It is quite simple to me, what precautions need to be taken to prevent any further unnecessary deterioration.  And it is unnecessary.    

I would begin with immediate Human Being Essentials studies to be fit in the school systems already in place around the world.  The systems as we know them, do not need themselves to be changed – many if not all can remain.  It is only the energy and the approach that needs alteration. 

We have come a long way – Britain has come a long way – from the time when children were sent down mines and up chimneys do to the work an adult would not do.  “People have children to do their dirty work” my mother told me.  Yet still  THE ‘EDUCATION’ SYSTEM IS WAY BEHIND.

We are not killed as a matter of course if we question what we are, and this was what happened historically.  It is no longer seen as a direct threat to the throne or to the faith at rule.  If anything it is seen as a rather cool progressive thing to do.  Why not ‘raise’ our children?  Why not give our children an advantage of knowing more about themselves?

I do not want anyone to need to experience the things that I did on my learning path.  I am passionate about the education curriculums ‘Human Being Essentials’ that I am developing.  I am passionate and committed to all young humans being able to know what they are – as much as they know how to care for their dog, or their favourite hobby!

The only reason we do not already know about ourselves, is due to historical fears of invasion, as our systems of society were formed.

The fear now, is what will happen further if we do not take care of ourselves in a more responsible manner.  We can’t all sit around watching telly for the health tips of Dr Oz!  Our children certainly can’t from school.  

Do we really need to get through our school, get through all our preparation for society, and then, be able to find the time – and expense – to do our own extra curricular learning of what we are?  What it means to be a Human being? How to be a healthy one?  

Even just the word ‘Human’ is something many just cannot relate to!  How telling is that!?

It is a joy and a privilege to have a body and a life, and, knowing how to live as a human being should come as no surprise.   We cannot care for ourselves if we are ignorant of ourselves.    : -)

How Miserable Are You Content To Be?

  • 1.  What bad feelings do to our energy.
  • 2.  Releasing old stuck remnant emotions, for a better life, or ‘cashing it in’ for joy!
  • 3.  Tips on what life is all about.

How miserable are you content to be?  That’s what I want to know!

Cashing every bit in, allows you to contain that much more light.  releasing every bit of it from your energy allows you to be wiser fresher and renewed BECAUSE YOU WERE miserable.

‘Cashing it in’ for joy, is what you are enabled to do as a Human, when you have the energetic know how! 

All the misery you contain is of benefit to you exchanged, be it a little misery or so much that you cannot think of anything else.

In my case I could barely move I had so much in my energy, and did not want to be alive another second, so I didn’t have a choice but to learn how to clear it from me!

You see, we feel for a reason.  We come to earth to feel actually…that and many other reasons, but it’s a biggie.;)

We are here to live our lives, attaining the wisdom a full life can supply us with.

The AIM of life is to live.  

The POINT is the attainment of wisdom to further our development.

After we get to about 25 yrs, after we ‘get through’ our situation of manifestation, life becomes careful conscious decision-making.    

Life is calculated risk.  We alone make our decisions that form our actions.  We alone choice our words that create our reality.  And we alone monitor how much light we contain.

The amount of light we contain can be increased immediately upon ‘cashing in’ misery/pain/anguish/stuck energies.  Where this energy was, upon release, is replaced with joy – or white light frequencies.

The effects are a raising of your vibration.  The releasing of this stuck ‘bad’ energy (the pain/misery/fear/whatever undealt with emotion) is a lifting of the weight you may feel on your shoulders.   You will get a sudden ability to think of other things.  You may suddenly find your consciousness goes to things not thought of in ages as you have made space.  Suddenly other activities become attracted to your altered vibration.  WE ARE ENERGY, and as like attracts like, you may find you are quite changed with the choices you find yourself making.

There is no end to the amount of misery you can release.  There is no beginning set in stone with how much you need to accumulate before you release it.  WE are meant to be releasing it, not holding it around us like it is our favourite coat.;)

We are actually meant to – and quite able to, regardless of what we have been through – be living as if we have just arrived on the planet, in our adult form!  

Only you can decide when you want to learn tactics to remove it, to ‘cash it in’ to experience more of what life can offer you.

I plan to hold mass/group energy release celebrations, at gatherings I share information in the future.  Our sound is a very personal thing, as are our emotions.  However, it is also very natural to feel comfortable, and to do things differently when we feel part of a ceremony or ritual, or as part of a tradition as the Humans that we are.

In such a situation a group energy is formed, that we ourselves contribute to, and that alters our own.

I plan to hold such healings, where we can join together, single sex and mixed, for the purpose of releasing unwanted energies; of the glory of welcoming the replacement frequencies; 0f the glory of a tribal feel – a Human feel – to our celebratory healing!

When we are together like this, our sound merges, as does our emotional state.  Noo one can feel insecure or embarrassed or self conscious, as arguably we will not know where one of us begins….one of us ends…or the start of someone else!

I consider it a perfect way for us to bring about this change in ourselves as humans, just as we humans did in the past.

WE are still humans, or course, with human needs, and human energy, and we need to do energy clearing, just as much as we need to eat and excrete!

I hope to see, hear and feel you there!

I will also post some writings here with tips to release energies.  : )

Some Signs and Symptoms of Inner Peace.

  • This is perfect. I want to share it as is, and it is one of the many helpful notices I gathered on the way, that assisted me to know I was on the right track.  Maybe it will help you too. : )
  • We are meant to by design, and so are perfectly capable of, achieving inner peace.  As the manager/mistress of all our functions and abilities, it is a skill of ourselves that is totally within reach.  If bladder control is ‘kindergarten’ level Self Mastery, inner peace is ‘university’ level Self Mastery.;)  

Some signs and Symptoms Of Inner Peace

A tendency to think and act spontaneously rather than on fears based on past experiences.

An unmistakable ability to enjoy each moment.

A loss of interest in judging other people.

A loss of interest in interpreting the actions of others.

A loss of interest in conflict.

A loss of the ability to worry.

Frequent, overwhelming episodes of appreciation.

Contented feelings of connectedness with others and nature.

Frequent attacks of smiling.

An increased susceptibility to the love extended by others as well as the uncontrollable urge to extend it.

 

This is exactly what happens, and this writing describes the achievement very well.    I have had this stuck to my fridge for years now, after finding it in the Brisbane, Australia rooms of the brilliant New Zealand healer Heather Bruce.

Do you feel like this?  It is definitely something to look forward to!  : )

Best Definition Of Meditation, Enlightenment & Nirvana Ever!

  • 1.Meditation defined in the most accurate and  clearest way I’ve come across, in 3 quotes, and explained even further by me.
  • 2.Enlightment process described, further defined.
  • 3.The feeling of Nirvana given context and described. 

I always had an issue with the definition of ‘Meditation’.  I’d heard it used and seen it written in all manner of contexts, some seeming contradictory.

I didn’t bother with understanding it, but did my own thing, going with what I knew inside and with what worked for me.  I read a description just now that is exactly what my experiences have been:
Initially, when you sit to meditate, you are not really meditating.  You are practicing concentration.  Using the classic definition, meditation begins when you are able to stop all thought in the mind.  So, until then, we practice.  We learn to focus the mind on a single object.  * 
For me it began with a curiousity.  My father meditated on the floor in the dark each evening, I discovered, from the time I resided with him in Australia at 9 years old.  I would join him, and we lay next to one another in slence, at my Great Aunt’s place in Canberra where he’d been living.
After that I was doing it more from determination.  Just like I’d tried all the tricks in case they really did work- like the wriggling your nose on Bewitched.;) I wanted to gain from this exercise if it really did work, as it sounded like it’d be a huge benefit.
So, I spent time trying to meditate.  I would lie down with my eyes closed and I would experience that.  I would do the noticing the thoughts.  I would do the trying to stop them.  I would do the noticing any space, then noticing when a thought came.
In time what happens is, it just gets easier and easier.  You train yourself, quite literally.  Awarenesses along the way occur as if by magic, as you are able to notice what else is going on around you that your thoughts and your focus on the physical reality are obscuring.
Then I ran into some challenges, as I was still at this stage attracting all manner of hardships, as my ‘I could get through anything, as my whole life experience has been suffering’ style, was still creating my reality.
In absolute desperation, when I really just wanted to die, I again did the meditating thing, but this time with a “I’m gonna get there or else, I can’t stand to be alive!” attitude.
It was then I realised I knew this place as the safe place I had to go to as a child, when life was too much.  I had just taken on the current adult words and descriptions in favour of my own. Well I didn’t have the words to describe my personal experience or knowledge yet of what it was.
With practice you will learn to pass through the gateway of the chakra into dimensions of light.  Beyond these dimensions of light lies the ocean of nirvana.  The result of true mediation is the stateless state of nirvikalpa samadhi or nirvana, when the individual self is absorbed into the Universal Self.   *
Words I will use, to use common English language words, so we can easily incorporate it into a knowing in every day life are:
What happens the more you meditate, when you do hold a thoughtless space, and when your awareness becomes such that you are aware you are moving your consciousness, is you can clearly see light.
You can see passage ways toward a light.   As you are able to hold a thoughtless space for a longer time, so you can go further along, toward the light.  
There are breaks or gateways where you go through a space of no light and suddenly, it is brighter and stronger as the light reappears.  I prefer the term ‘portal’ for these.  You need to pass through 3 to 5 of them – though it is not a space where you are counting!  Counting being a lower consciousness activity that involves the mind.
It IS a journey.  The longer you can hold a thoughtless space – and why it is a requirement – is, you need to travel in this state to get to where your consciousness feels to be floating in an ocean, or a cloud, or an area of absolute resonance, OF LOVE.
Whatever word you choose to best describe to you, will do, for a supportive comforting thing you cannot actually feel….;)
Floating is the way to describe it.  A warmth of feeling, but not temperature wise.  A smile comes on your face (actually it has come long before this) but here it is SO WIDE, and it is not in your conscious control, it has just happened as your energy has felt it necessary to do.
There is nothing else happening for you, except a feeling of the utmost peace, love, serenity and bliss, all wrapped up in a warmth light, that you feel has you wrapped up like in a snuggly doona/duvet.;)
It was in my state of determination and desperation “I am going there!!!”and getting there, that caused me to realize that this place is there for everyone.
I feel anyone can get there who wants to , and who knows how to, and is determined enough to.
It was my already knowing it was there, that made me able to stick it out. It was my feeling so terrible and not wanting to be alive, that gave me no other option but, to stick it out til I felt it.
During this time, I went there whenever I had the opportunity.  I was in a house where I had put string hammocks inside, as I found them the most comfortable thing.  I would climb into a hammock and I would go to the light.  I would have the intention, I made time, and that was where I was going to go.
You don’t just wake up one morning and ZAP! your enlightened…it’s an ongoing process.  Everyday brings another change. *1
I had always – since my early childhood experiences of suffering combined with church visits;)  – wanted, and intended to, attain enlightment.;)  
When meditating, when you reach as high as you have been able to go, there are times when light just enters you.  It gets brighter and whiter the closer to it you get, before you can feel it.  
The first time it  enters you by ‘cracking down’ it feels incredible.  I say cracking down as it looks just like  a lightning flash/bolt you may have seen on tv or in the sky.   There is a sudden warmth and flow about you and a joy, an incredible joy.
The light you see inside yourself is brighter than the light of the day, so it is really interesting to open your eyes and things are darker!  It makes you want to close your eyes again. : )
I wrote a chapter in my book  ‘Living In Me’ called  ‘Fast track to the light’,  where I explain more of my experiences, more specifics of the journey and a more detailed  ‘how to’.
It is very real this thing, this thing called joy, and unconditional unbelievable love, and divine light.  It is also there awaiting us at any time we choose to experience it.
I do not go there every day now, but only because I know it is there for me at any time.  
I am still experiencing all the changes and know how we are meant to bring to earth this light.  How it transforms us, betters our life experience, maximizes our potential and alters for better, the energy of our Earth. : ) 
* Quotes from Lucia Rene’s ‘Unplugging The Patriachy’ 2009, where she quotes her spiritual teacher.
 

Rules For Being Human.

  • First bit is not written by me but by ‘Anonymous.   I have an idea who, but who am I to blow someone’s cover.;)  It is  excellent and I consider it well worth sharing here.
  • A few tips from me to put it into practice!.


You will receive a body.  You may like it or hate it, but it will be yours for the entire period this time around.

You will learn lessons.  You are enrolled in a full-time informal school called Life.  Each day in this school you will have the opportunity to learn lessons.  You may like the lessons or think them irrelevant and stupid.

There are no mistakes, only lessons. Growth is a process of trial and error experimentation.  The “failed” experiments are as much a part of the process as the experiment that ultimately “works”. 

A lesson is repeated until it is learned.  A lesson will be presented to you in various forms until you have learned it.  When you have learned it, you can go on to the next lesson.

Learning lessons does not end.  There is no part of life that does not contain lessons.  If you are alive, there are lessons to be learned.

“There” is no better than “here”. When your “there” has become a “here”, you will simply obtain another “there” that will, again, look better than “here”.

Others are simply mirrors of you.  You cannot love or hate something about another person unless it reflects to you something you love or hate about yourself.

What you make of your life is up to you.  You have all the tools and resources you need.  What you do with them is up to you.  The choice is yours.

The answers lie inside you.  The answers to life’s questions lie inside you.  All you need to do is look, listen and trust.

You will forget all this.  By Anonymous.       

It may seem hard at first to trust that what you need to know lies inside you, but let me assure you that it does.  You are not alone by any means.

Get to know inside yourself.  Spend time exploring inside you.  It is a skill to navigate our consciousness, and has only been ridiculed or named as “hippy” or “new age” by those unfamiliar, and insecure with themselves, and seeking to feel better and on familiar ground again…until they don’t again.

Our ground is not familiar though, and feeble short-term attempts to feel secure on it, will only maintain the unhappiness, that is escalating and spreading in phenomenal proportions the world over.

We are so much more than we are currently being.  The only cure is for us to Be more! : )

Talking ‘Bout Our Inventions : The Chair

  • 1. Natural rest positions for the human body
  • 2. What is ‘to sit’.
  • 3. All about  ‘the chair’
  • 4. The historic reason behind it, & original promotion.
  • 5. Healthy alternatives.

The ‘Chair’ invention is a just a sculpture we can ‘sit’ on.  

To ‘sit is to fold /bend ourselves into an unnatural resting position for us.  

Our natural sitting position is for us to fold our legs with our seat bone or pelvic base  perpendicular to the floor, and our buttocks forming a natural cushioning for us as our weight is held distributed, by the weight of our folded legs limbs in front of us.  

Our energy is able to flow unrestricted and evenly in this position.  Our head is upright, enabling a good vantage point to see all around us, our arms can rest in our lap, or be free to engage in whatever.

To sustian this position may require only a change in leg crossing, unless feet are able to be placed up onto a thigh, which can prevent any loss of fluid or energy circulation at all.

This is about as comfortable a resting position as is available to us in human form.  It is common to all human beings at all ages once a child can walk.

It is the position of choice for long periods of  non-standing or non full recline.  It is the natural position for meditations, asnd is still common in Western Society but mostly known as sitting ‘cross legged’ and restricted only to the children in schools, becoming less popular as someone ages, if never done again .

Extremely successful marketing is the reason our natural seated position has become a thing of the past.

Chairs were promoted and enforced in Britain and Western Europe,  by etiquette using the language to ” get ourselves off the floor so we did not look like savages.”  

Wood carving was enormously popular at this time, wood craftsmanship, wood carving tools created for purchase, tree felling, and mastery over the environment, to make use of that which was provided, without any strategies for long term management in place.

‘Governing by etiquette’ ‘having’ to have, being one of the ‘haves’ rather than the ‘have-nots’ was a powerful method of making sure people bought chairs.  They were a vital part of social structures, social gatherings, entertaining, and meeting.  It was noticed by all of your social status’ or ‘class’ whether you were able to afford the latest most popular chairs.

To make furniture to earn money;  to contribute to the economy;  to be a furniture maker.   These were considered at the time, with the knowledge available, more important than a human body being in a healthy rest position.

Sitting crossed legged cannot be beaten or improved upon by any invention as this ‘sit’ is just the natural way our legs fold.  People who have discomfort doing this, are those with other body health issues such as obesity, or another cause of inflexibility, which may be as simple as unfamiliarity with sitting without a chair!

We know now, that a healthy chair – or a chair that is comfortable for the human body, is a design that has us in an elevated kneeling position.

I never had a good relationship with chairs.  My life began with my mother making it clear that she considered the chair she let me sit on;) to be more valuable to her than myself!  These chairs were uncomfortable wooden adult chairs, the wrong height for a small child and without a cushion.  I wanted to kneel to raise my height to reach the table’s surface.  I was yelled at for endangering the chair with the possibility of being scratched by the buckles of my sandles and made to “sit back down properly child!

I would love aeroplanes to have us lie in a stacked tier structure, similar to something I saw on the movie the Fifth Element, when Bruce Willis  needed to travel to another planet.  Planes would be able to fit just as many people in, perhaps more, and certainly our bodies would be much more comfortable.

Yes I have chairs, but I am able to sit cross-legged in them, or to recline in another way.  Those Japanese design ones that fold up and can also be a mattress are handy too.  Do spend some time, whatever you do, NOT sitting in a chair, to allow for even weight distribution, and healthy muscular growth around the core of your back, to enable you a good postural foundation.

Encourage your little ones to feel comfy sitting on the floor, with a special cushion or coloured mat in their room in favour of a little chair.  An unsupported core or back. really is necessary to develop the musculature  for good posture later in life, to develop good musculature of the spine and each vertebrae.

I am seeing so many children, and teenagers already with deformed sloping backs, stooped necks and rounded shoulders.  I consider it necessary to teach of posture in the ‘I Am Body’ part of my Human Being Essential curriculm. School does not teach them this yet, so a home set up that is conducive to healthy development is necessary.

Remember the jingle:  body care = no chair! : )