Another Way Of Being.

There is a way of being, that has you choose your thoughts when you need them, and has the most useful information contained by you, arise effortlessly, when you need it.

There is a way of being, that enhances all of your senses, to a degree that continues to improve, surprising and delighting you, by becoming more enhanced a you live your life.

Life gets better and better.  As it should be, and as is the way.  Becoming aware of this, is the way to begin to receive it.  Learning tips of self mastery, is the way to assure it, as you awaken and secure within your body, the reliable ‘hardwiring’ to make it so.

Any other way seems missing of the point really.  Do we not want to be excellent in our design?  Certainly there are reasons many of us can give as to why we do not make the most of our lives.  If we can be so much more than we are being, if we can be so much more capable than we already are, do we not owe it to ourselves – or at least our children – to find out how so? 

I was enabled a freshness and a completely unbias view of life and humanity from my start in life.  There was no where I trusted, no one with whom I felt safe, so all information that came to me from any source, needed to be assessed by me, on it’s merits alone. 

Over the years I have found what a tremendous advantage this was, as I am drawn naturally to what is good for me, and what brings me joy.  And now, what has me wanting to share guaranteed life maximising guidelines with the rest of my species!   I am enjoying bringing these writings to you! : )

 

I saw a sign that said ‘Life Is “Good”‘. It made me sad.

  • How are language use and our vocabulary can restrict our life experience.

Life can only be “good” at the very best with his sign.

I saw it printed in large letters hanging from the ceiling in a shop that sold well-being cards and household things in San Diego, but I felt sad when I saw it.  The saying “life is what you make it” is very true.

How we receive anything is completely our own.  Let me explain.  Have you ever said anything to somebody, who reacted to what you said in a completely unexpected way?   Perhaps they took immediate offense to what you said, when you meant no harm at all, or were even making a light hearted comment for a bit of fun?

When we have unresolved issues/past hurts that we still carry around as us in our energy, any event or stimuli, passes through our accumulation of experiences/data stored, that we have not cleared.

Think of  a computer, when we haven’t deleted things, or put them onto a separate hard drive.  The computer needs to put energy into starting it whole self up, so it can have ready every little bit we might need.  It will take longer to get ready to start, and there will be an obvious drain on the power as superfluous, unneeded or irrelevant files, slow and hinder the process.

All aspects of ourselves, also require energy in order we can receive anything.  It is our fixed design, so we can use our life wisdom, that has us check everything to keep us protected.  It is largely a subconscious scanning process that goes on, as all familiarities and associations contained within, are activated.

When we carry around our problems instead of regularly clearing them, the issue of past hurt is just as ready as our own eyes, to take in the information.

We do not and we cannot take it in, without it passing through all of the ‘files behind our eyes’.

My mother taught me this from the earliest years.  She would look at something- anything- and immediately respond with something critical and negative.  She did not see beauty in what she saw.  She was not able to.

Her receiving face would have narrowed eyes under a frowning forehead.  Her nose would be narrowed.  Her posture would be stooped, or noticing from sideways on, with a cranked neck to see properly.  Her verbal comment would use a flattened or dull tone of voice that was not pleasing to hear, from a mouth that was perhaps partially obstructed by a finger or not opened fully to speak.

These are all indicative behavioural responses to not fully being able to take in life.

An open-hearted being has wide eyes, and open nostrils to receive life, and to breathe life force energy in.  An open-hearted being has a forehead that is raised in interest and a stance or posture alignment that allows for a natural flow of unhindered inner energies, from a place of confident viewing.   An open-hearted being expresses a tone of voice that is energizing or invigorating to hear, with unashamed in delivery.

So severe was her condition, that she could see only faults when she looked into her own baby daughter’s face.  I grew so accustomed to screwed up narrowed eyes, that it was many years before I saw loving ones and experienced the phenomenal difference.

Life is incredible.   Life is magical.

It is how we receive it, that makes our experience of it so.  To be as fresh as if we just arrived on the planet is the way to live!

Skills to further heighten our senses are available to us…tbc!   : )

Human mystery? Dimension jump;)

  • The status quo in brief…

The truth is, most everyone who is not in this dimension wants to be – even for just a day.   And most folk here don’t ‘get it’, in order they can make the most of it.

Most folk get stuck between the knowing they want to manifest a ‘heaven’ feeling on Earth and the achievement of the ‘know-how’ to do it!;)

Being a Human Being has become a mystery that we each discover on our own, if we get opportunity.

What other species of life knows less about itself than we? 🙂

‘Post Traumatic Stress Disorder’ Energetic Management Tips

My attention was drawn to ‘Post Traumatic Stress Disorder’ as more and more folk return from time spent serving in the armed forces especially. This is something I can relate to, and it, and ‘Vietnam syndrome’ have been given as reference in describing accurately the symptoms that I experience, as triggers of my childhood violence comes to mind during the day.

There are tips I would like to share to bring comfort and peace to this very real condition.  It is completely natural and healthy, for our subconscious  to ‘bring to mind’ all associations and familiarities, to any given activity, stimuli or environment.

It is something we should recognise in the context that it is a valid skill of ours, that is designed to keep us safe and to facilitate us using our wisdom to the best of our ability.

That being said, if we have been through experiences that are on the up-end scale of extreme suffering, we will definitely sometimes be reminded of things that may cause discomfort of one kind or another.

Kindness to self is what is required.  Having a good memory and an alert and protective consciousness are things we can cherish in ourselves.   They have kept us safe us safe thus far, from situations that could be worse.  As we develop in consciousness and/or spiritualty, our memory abilities only become more and more acute, as all of our senses and receptivity to life increases.

Proven beyond any doubt, is that what is believed to be, registers as what is, by our brain and body.  What is imagined and felt to be true, is what is true for us.  What we believe and feel to be the case, is what is the case for us.

The Human Being is an energy being with all energy outside of the physical body, or what can be seen with the human eye, referred to as the ‘aura’.    There are techniques that we can imagine, or ‘see’ or visualize, that are for our service.

The very strongest Auric protection that I use, is to imagine I am inside a pyramid.  I can be at a cafe – or anywhere –  imagining I am inside a pyramid, where I am completely safe, in an impenetrable place.  Bombs could go off on the outside of my pyramid, or anything, but I am inside, relaxed, leaning back sipping my beverage!

Another helpful technique is to imagine mirrors reflected outward from your aura, to deflect any stimuli that you do not want.  Any kind of ‘Auric cloak’ you feel to throw on, or Auric strength you feel to wear. to further strengthen you, do so.  If you feel safer imagining you are completely kitted out in your most defensive military garb, do so.  Imagine taking it off when you go home.   Imagine wearing a little less of it, gradually, as you venture out more frequently.   Choose what ever analogy suits you, perhaps you are inside a tank instead of a pyramid?

Rest assured, that the associations or memories that your efficient and protective consciousness is giving you, is completely healthy.  It is simply developed wisdom, from extreme and dangerous circumstances.  Love yourself for it. : )

I had things thrown at me every which way, never sure when I would be punched or yelled at, or have rubber bands fired at me.  I was never sure when I would next experience something painful and I needed to calculate how to move about, and to look behind all doors and curtains.

When I am out somewhere, I place myself in corners or quiet areas that are the most comfortable to me, where I will be disturbed the least.  Definitely and absolutely, the wisdom from everything I have experienced has my reflexes in top order and is not something I would ever wish to lose!

Take care not to invalidate the rest of your abilities, from drug use, that may seem to comfort you by making you ‘vague’ of yourself.   Emotional energy that needs to leave you, does not leave you, without YOU making it leave you!!   The more we have suffered the absolute more capacity we have for joy, once we release it!!! 

This a promise. : )

When You Are Ripest for Healing!

Have you ever had a thought that keeps coming to you, that you do not put there? 

Have you ever had something surprising enter your thought space, that has nothing to do with what you are doing?

Have you ever had a very upsetting memory enter your thought space after a period of fun, joy or sexual release?

I am guessing you are aware of this occurring, in what would be the space between the thoughts of your own choosing.

What is fabulous about the human body – one of a multitude – is the automatic tendency toward healing and these thoughts are coming to you with this purpose.

You are ready to deal with the issue related to the thoughts, to process through and feel the feelings, in order that they are then released from your body and being.  As you are a continuing flow and movement of energy, as soon as there is opportunity for further release and growth within you, this happens automatically.

Take some contemplative time to ask yourself what you need to learn from the thought.

1. What is it telling you.  What are you telling you?

2.What message does it bring?

3.What action is required to be taken?

4. Is there anything else you need to know from it?

Then that’s it!  Be done with it!  Over! Gone!

It is as though you are a vessel with an opening to release what it is that does not serve you any more, feelings that you once had, aggravation that you once experienced.  It rises to the top of this vessel in order that it may spill over the side, just coming to your awareness when it reaches the top, so that you may facilitate its efficient removal.

It comes and it comes, and greater joy may allow more of it.  When it is stuck or unexpressed for too long we are ‘depressed’.  It is a life long responsibility for us to maintain ourselves in energetic health, just as we know we will be sick if we stop excreting from our physical vessel, our digestive tract.

Waste product = what doesn’t serve us anymore and would benefit us to leave = human waste as feces = human waste as old stuck emotion.

Our energetic presence has been misunderstood and unrecognized historically, as it was not able to be observed with the human eye.  Fortunately there are wondrous techniques available now to assist the removal of this energy (also correctly named: stuck emotion, hurtful feeling, nasty association, emotional pain or agony).

Tapping or Emotional Freeing Techniques work at physically stimulating energy points, sound releasing is a fave of mine, where you release the sound of your energy on the exhale of your breath and there is just venturing into it, allowing yourself to feel it through.  Give yourself a time limit, then a reward!    You can come back to it at any time.   You are then being the manager/mistress of your cells as you are meant to be.

Sexual energy use and the pleasure that creates vibrating throughout the body is an exceptional means to dislodge stuck energies, and quite the purpose!  I dedicate entire blogs to this, as there is so much more that needs to be shared regarding our sexuality.

For me, I just allow time to do my energetic ‘housekeeping’ and auric cleaning.   At the moment I am needing to allow to leave me, energy from being pushed down stairs countless times as a child.  There was at no time that I was able to release this from me before, or at the time I was living in such danger, and it is ripe to leave me this week especially.

I have never had so many thoughts or memories of all the stair case falling enter my thought space before!   All it takes is for me to lower my head a distance, and my cellular memory is providing me with the association, when I was in that position, of what I needed to do quickly as I prepared myself to fall.   I am very pleased to be able to release it now.  I understand completely that my being is able to allow this to leave me now.

I have become very familiar with the process, I do not have any judgement of it as it leaves me, and I look forward to how I feel afterward.  I can feel an internal lightening, and I can feel joy take the place of the eager to be discarded or released, stuck, old, used, irrelevant, hanging about, passe, unwanted, unneeded….get it?;))…energy, in the form of emotion.

It is not scary.  It is you, or rather, for your instruction.

It is you wanting you to let it go.  It is you telling you it is strong enough, and completely ready, to do what must be done for it to go.   It is an act of self love, to give yourself the time and energy to release it, so that you can reap the rewards of the stuck energy being gone.   The more you have suffered, the more space inside you have created to receive as joy! x   : )

Building Sand Castles (ii)

  • my chapter for the book titled ‘In The Spirit Of Success’ April 2012.
  • guidelines to maximize your life success
  • how to use the 30/30/40 ratio of effort

Like building sand castles in the sand, some things we just do because it leads to a better life.  No one is going to pay us, promote us, or perhaps even notice, yet we build them because something inside us gives us the idea, and we teach our children to do it still.

I was born into challenging circumstances.  My safety was jeopardized by members of my immediate family on a regular basis, but to all outside appearances it was a respectable and functioning family that routinely visited church at Christmas.

Not permitted to speak, even for the purpose of learning, and told to keep out of sight because I was intolerable to look at, gave me enormous time for self-contemplation, questioning and analysis.

I relied on, and was arguably raised by, a mystery inner guidance, as one helpful suggestion after another entered my thought space. I depended upon this to keep me safe, as I received instructions on when and where to move about the house unharmed.  I came to realize I was not alone at all.

This sense of knowing also came to my rescue when on more than one occasion, a pillow was placed over my face while I was sleeping.  I held my breath for the longest time and kept very still, as I had trained myself to do in early infant school.  While other children were playing, I was obediently holding my breath for as long as I could, all day, every day, stretching out how long I could last.

I could not see behind closed doors – I only saw them – but my invisible mystery guidance obviously could.

I had given myself to God “if there was one” , with all the soul and intent of  a desperate toddler. Meditation, or the light I found behind my eyes became my place of comfort.  Time spent behind my eyes and in nature was my greatest source of safety and strength.

In adulthood, a terrible head-on road accident, killed the driver, and left me unconscious and in critical condition.  It required many hours just to cut me from the crushed vehicle, before I was flown to an intensive care unit.  Many simply wrote me off from having any type of quality future life.

Again, I relied on my default way of being, consulting my inner help, and I was guided step by step through a long and complicated process of recovery.

From my wheelchair, the Universe had me spy the dog of my childhood dreams in a pet shop window.  I found her impossible to resist, and my spirit was already running with her.  Physically it took me longer, progressing to crutches, then to walking sticks, then one walking stick, and then how we sprinted together!   These days I even enjoy circus trapeze workshops and dance.

Following another near death experience, (as refining of priorities as they certainly are!), I gained the insight to change myself, to not attract any more of them.  Suffering had been my familiarity to this point, where I felt the most “at home” and I was just attracting more of it.  Lawsuits for personal damages were also not my number one career choice!

What I have learned from my life experiences has been invaluable and I would not want to change the access to knowledge it has given me for anything in the world.  For me, that would be like turning off the light and returning to darkness.

To be human is to create, and ultimately we become the person we choose to be and who we work towards creating.  It is when our thoughts, words, actions, and behavior’s are all aligned that life becomes easier.  Way easier!

We, in human form, are the master/mistress, manager, and caretaker of all our cells, our thoughts, and our feelings.  Here is where we do the best job we can at being the best us, with the knowledge that we have, and within the parameters of 21st century planet earth, while creating the future.

Thoughts

No one can visit you if you do not offer them a chair or a place to park their car.  Well, the same applies for allowing you to express your full spiritual presence.  Spirit world is thought world, and it only needs a space to be heard.

Notice all that you can do daily without using your mind.  Things such as seeing, listening, tasting, smelling, and feeling.  Note that you actually turn the mind on the moment you attempt to access information.  It is the “foyer” equivalent to our memory files and elsewhere, to use or not to use.  Feel confident to pick the thoughts that best suit your life at the time.  Worry is simply an undisciplined thought that is recurring.

No time spent finding a space between thoughts is wasted, and makes all thinking easier and more succinct.  rewards are experienced long before you are able to hold that space for any time.

The space we create becomes our lifeline to ethereal dimensions and our easy access route to our spirit guidance.  Once we achieve this entryway, we can then trust that we will know what we need to know, when we need to know it.

Words

When we give sound to a thought, we activate its creative potential bringing it into reality.  Having a thought is one thing, putting your sound to it magnifies it exponentially and brings it out ‘virally.’

Feel confident to choose your words carefully against the tide of people chatting and verbalizing every thought.  Minimizing your words, maximizes their creative potential.

Your “I am ” statements are your most creative building blocks.  Avoid staying in the common habit of question and answer, as we do not creat when we direct another’s consciousness around.  Aim instead on the habit of restful sharing of what comes to mind from another’s sharing.

An Affirmation is a carefully chosen series of words than when spoken aloud, combine your intent, with your essence and your soul.  Feel it is so, and believe.  For example:

“Today I am the strongest creator of success, health, and happiness for myself that I have ever been.”

The “Universal Absolutes” Requirements for Success

1. Truth.

Exist in a state of Truth, or “Adherence to what is”.  How can those in other dimensions assist you if they cannot rely on you?

2. Good Intent.

Hold a good intent for all.  A love for self and others that is uncompromising.

3. Gratitude.

Be in a state of gratitude.  This automatically fast tracks us for ease of access to higher dimensions be raising our vibration.

Follow these three = ask, receive, with guarantee!

After many years of following this formula, I calculated that intent accounts for 30% of the work, providing you with opportunity, another 30%, and then the physical doing is actually only 40% of effort.  This achieves ‘maximum effect with minimal effort’ and life just makes sense as synchronicites occur around you.

While there is much fascination for what comes before and after life, here on earth is the only place we run, jump, leap, taste, touch, and feel!

Here is our playground, and as with any game there are rules.

See you at the finish line!

Lover of life, love, joy, music ,and all that brings clarity and explanation to a planet in need, Amelia Pinter finds a ready challenge in anything seemingly complicated! She is passionate about creating educational curriculums that reflect our needs, Human Being Essentials, an is seeking publication for “Living In Me : The Complete Guide to Being Human” and sharing her Sound Healing vocal frequencies across the world. For more information on Life or Amelia visit www.facebook.com/AmeliaPinter, www.amelia-pinter.com ,  www.celebratesingdance.com , www.LanguagesLifeEveryone.com  

So What IS Worry?

  • worry defined
  • how to cease worrying

Worry is simply an undisciplined thought process.

When thoughts had become undisciplined in enough people, when how to control thinking had been neglected to be taught to enough people, and when there was no ability in enough people to take action on concerns they had, there was cause for a new term to be invented.  A new word, and a new concept, to make believe we all new everything that was going on with us, and that our feelings were normal.  “Worry” was born.

All it is, is a thought that is recurring.  Don’t beat yourself up about it, chances are you are yet to move from your default setting of thoughts just coming to you as a constant stream, and when triggered, and when an action is required to solve something, that for whatever reason you cannot take.

To cease worrying, it is important to:

a)  Don’t get caught up in the word,;) discern between a concern and ‘worry’.  Begin to recognise when a thought, is also a ‘concern’.  A thought is still a thought no matter how it causes you to feel, or what messages it brings you, ie happy thought, pleasant thought, troublesome thought.

But a ‘concerning’ thought =  a thought that comes to you wanting an action, that may be unpleasant, or that may have an unpleasant consequence if the action is not carried out.  Or a thought that does not feel good, whether you know why that is or not, yet. Feeling concern for something is not the same as ‘worrying’ but could be completely healthy wisdom or guidance.

b) Consult your thoughts in a time of your choosing.  Just deciding to do this kick starts your subconscious and makes the Universe aware of your intent.  Set aside a time each day for ‘careful, contemplative thinking time’.

I tend to do this in the morning, consulting with myself the actions of the day ahead, and asking if there is anything that needs to be brought to my attention.  It speeds up and changes as you get more proficient in it, and are then able to concurrently manage – or read –  feelings, til they themselves give you a thought, allowing them to disappear, simply because their job is now done.

I allow time again later in the evening, when I hold a space for aspects of my Self to assess the day, and ask again if there is anything that needs to be brought to my attention.  I then reflect over my day in a state of gratitude over what has occurred or been achieved.

c)  Eliminate the word ‘ worry’ from your vocabulary, your knowledge is greater now.

When you are able to control your thoughts or just understand them better, it is very easy to stop worrying, as you know there is no natural place or context for it.  It becomes a completely ridiculous and pointless activity, a self- defeating ignorant concept. (Ignorance;without knowledge)

d) Recognize that you need to start the process of this Self Mastery of thought control, and asking yourself within, for it to begin to work. It does not show itself to you before, there is nothing holding up a sign or waving at you to begin.;)  It takes a conscious act of your Self to want to start, a belief in and a faith that it can happen and I assure you, it is waiting, and will meet you in your efforts! : )  Baby steps to begin with, is the sure way of success.

e) During your contemplative thinking time:

i) Allow for thoughts to present themselves,

ii) Consciously decide what action you will take on this thought.

iii) Then drop it /let it go and move to the next thought / asking for the next thought, that is the next most important to come to you.

In the beginning you may feel like someone pretending to conduct an orchestra for the first time, but it will all fall into place.  It is your holding of the intent, and the knowing, that it’s going to work, that will make it work.

Recognize that thought control takes time. It takes practise at getting to know your Self and your individual abilities and ways of working.  It takes a usage of the word ‘faith’ in it’s truest sense; a knowing that something will occur, and it will : )

To stop the invented concept called ‘worrying’ is only a choice!  To your self mastery..!!