Violence Makes No Sense For Humans.

Use_6I read it as create!!!!  Be all it is we all are, to add to it all, give all our sprecila skills, strengths and abilities!As Human Beings we are not actually meant to be violent to each other, BECAUSE we have language ability. We speak, there fore we are able to discuss anything, and especially nowadays, when we can literally speak one another’s language or know someone who can.  Even in the very rare occasion that we don’t – such as tribes of natural people’s living in the Amazon – we can easily make do, with all that we now know about each other.

Chimpanzees, a close relative also in the Primate family with a reckoned 98% identical genetics to us, require violence.  Chimpanzees can be invaded by another group, and nothing short of violence sees that them living through an invasion. They may even kill one another, pulling each other apart with bare hands.  They are not able to speak about it.  They do not have brains that can allow this.  

It makes no sense for human beings to be engaged in activities more suitable for another species entirely.  Our brains are the size they are, FOR our language ability, FOR our creation of language that we need to use. It is the very intent at thought that creates for us, the necessary neuron pathway. This is the reason it is the size it is,  It is designed to give us adequate ample space for whatever creation, of whatever we will need to say within our lives.  We always have the ability to create just the right thing to say for any situation. 

I honestly feel comfortable with humans of any language, and I prefer to learn of theirs, or do without a spoken one, rather than use any attempts at English.  I do find French to be my natural ‘filler’ language as I learn one, as French is a natural language that can fit with others, English – as it is an intellectual construct rather than a natural language for us – does not fit with others very well at all.  Before we shape anything into a word, we use a tone that carries meaning, and we can read faces/expressions/body language.  Certainly our language does not separate us at all….more our vocabulary…whatever the language.  When I travel, I tend to end up among those who have a similar vocabulary, and therefore a similar sense of priorities and interests.  The language difference may make finding these people a little trickier, but difficult and impossible are not the same thing at all..or even anywhere close!

Our Vocabulary = Our Intellectual Reasoning Ability.  Imagine all the words you know and can use to speak with, in a bag.  Then imagine the size the bag would need to be, taking up space within your head. This, is then what you have available for considering something.

If the bag is little, as it was with my mother – and I use that term in purely a descriptive sense –  you have room to consider only the basics, or what is in front of you directly.  This smaller size vocabulary is where you will find most root chakra, survival core behaviors of violence, such as gangs, mercenaries, hardcore violence.  Basic survival vocabulary.

The larger the vocabulary, the more complicated the reasons for violence need to be, for those humans to bond with it as an idea.  They need to be able to make elaborate excuses for such a basic survival core base chakra primitive activity, before it makes any sense to partake in at all.   The larger the vocabulary, more complicated ideas, reasons or excuses need to be given to engage people in it, such as is promoted when countries are at war or religions are at war.

Survival of something, is usually required for a reason, and also rewards of payment in some way, albeit a wage, allowance, guaranteed security or ‘career, guaranteed career or allowance for your spouse, guaranteed education for your children,  respect, and or honour.  

But really, there is nothing our language ability cannot solve. And, if respect is naturally returned to all humans – or naturally reclaimed as we do need to give it away – then what appeal do any of the above have for us?

Warring is just habitual.  Warring is just familiarity, and has been going on for so long without reprieve that it is relied on as a mainstay for the economy.  These are the reasons it is still occurring.  It is a regular habit, and no one has looked at alternatives to this.   The English language has relied upon violence – and invasion – in order to spread.  The wives of soldiers were commonly teachers to be able to ‘educate’ new British colony people’s, as was the case in my own British family.  My very brutal mother, was a soldier and a teacher.

The state of the world and countries as we know it, has formed out of a reliance upon violence, violent invasion. and continual warring.  Countries actually engaged in combat are just the tip of the iceberg , or think of the combat as where the waves hit the shore, and the rest of the world is the ocean behind the wave.   Many countries also are involved by benefiting in some way perhaps monetarily from supply and involvement.  We tend to only hear reports about, or see on T.V the ‘front’, hands on part of it.  These people can feel very isolated from the world, as though no one knows or cares.

Many situations we have going on in the world, are from decisions made in haste for assistance with a war.  Entire people’s have been uprooted and placed in the lands of others, as an exchange for another countries assistance in a war.  Then these people are at war against each other, even to this day!  But, it was not even their doing to be moved around like pieces on someone’s game board!  They were both equally disrespected historically and I do not consider their issue is with each other at all.  Yes I am speaking of Palestine and Israel for this example. 

It just comes down to the simple reason that it is habit, and put in place by ignorance.  Our ancestors did not know enough about ourselves.  Warring and violence established as a way of life by our ignorant ancestors is still at play.  Ill-health, misery and poverty were the reasons fear-filled, minimal vocabulary human beings, travelled the world in search of more for themselves.  They had no other ideas, of how to better their situation.  They were very undeveloped inwardly, as they used all their available creativity on developing inventions.  Those of us in hotter countries than England, had greater opportunity for inner or self-development, as conditions were more suitable in a climate sense.

Being cold, and needing to constantly be doing something to keep warm, sparked these of us on, to think of more ways to make things better…more ways to improve a hard gruellling situation.   They were desperate, desperately unhappy, and with mentally ill royalty ruling over them!;)  

My Aunt has a saying hanging in her kitchen, that I always covered with a kitchen towel when I was there.  It read “If you want a helping hand, look at the end of your own arm.”  This is still the very real belief underlying much in Britain.  It is the most un-community minded, unhelpful ‘culture’ of people I have experienced.  They did not ever have, in their entire history, an era of no violence.   Countries invaded by Britain, often only needed to become violent in reaction to their experiences of Britain. To ‘out- do the British’ I call it.;)   They have within their history, memories and behavioral practices and even entire philosophies, that are peaceful and healthy.   Britain does not have this.

My Grandma had a large collection of dolls in National costume from all around the world.  It was contained in special cabinets, in pride of place in her living room, and it further sparked my interest in how the history of the world and human development had taken shape.  Britain’s National costume was only military uniforms, but the others showed wonderful designs of color and imagination, and definitely, many various roles and pride-filled activities, aside from warring behaviors.

Instead of relying upon them, relying upon English speakers, we need to be helping THEM.  Instead of acquiescing to a false ‘better way’, we need to be guiding THEM.  Instead of enabling more ignorance to be in place, we need to be knowing of ourselves.  Instead of pandering to them, we need to be giving them direction.

It is just way easier to continue as is now with this warring, though it is not sensible, effective, respectful, knowledgeable or kind.  It takes courage to break away from what is familiar for us.  But this is what we need to do. It is ridiculous that we as a human species are carrying out activities more suitable to chimpanzees and allowing ourselves to decline in ability.

Everyone needs to consider this, as we all affect one another, our energy all overlaps, our activities all have consequence.  This just was not known of, or understood when the habit of warring was put in place.  It is a bad human habit, that needs to be prevented..like nail biting or like picking your nose.  It is beneath us, and it is holding us back from what we actually, really came here on earth to do!

Blessings 🙂

The Power of Words.

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We bring what we say into our lives.

Whether we ‘spend’ our words on the subjects of war, death or control, or on subjects such as love, peace, togetherness, joy and good health.

What we give our breath to, our essence, our energy, our intent and then formulate into a series of words with meaning, ACTIVATES it.  This vibration creates more of the same vibration.

It is all energy, it is all continually vibrating resonance.  It is all teeny weeny particles outside of our human field of vision.  Not yet common knowledge, only due to one of the ignorant rulings of Victorian era Britain “nothing exists unless there is a tool by which it can be measured.” still underlying the framework of all our societal structure.

Either energy raises to a higher more loving vibration: a + vibration, lighter and higher and faster moving, or, it lowers to a more fear, hate, loathing, distress vibration:  a – vibration, low and dense.

A ‘spell’ that we are more familiar with from tales of witches, is nothing more than a carefully chosen series of words spoken with intent.  Our own words have this affect.  We ourselves activate our ability,  by consistency to speaking our truth.  This is called having integrity with our word.  

As humans we have speech as our special ability.  For too many years from ignorance only, many of us have lost the connection of what this actually means for us.  I am passionately committed to reminding us, I have lived my life to do this and I fully believe we as a species need to learn HOW TO SPEAK all over again!   

It is our speech ability – or lack thereof – that is behind much of the inadequate, or superficial relating, between ourselves.  If we can talk about something, to reach an understanding with honest tone and well chosen words THERE IS NOTHING WE CANNOT SOLVE.  This applies equally to an issue in a nuclear family as it does to one of global consequence between countries of different languages/faiths/cultures. 

Choose your words as though your life depended upon it.  This is the truth in a nutshell!  

Always remember that silence is better than a word not chosen carefully and spoken in truth, and claim for yourself the confidence to do this.  Raised as I was in total lies, with a mother  who advised me that ‘it did not matter what was really happening, but only what you had others believe’, made it easy for me to see how that choice had stunted her development and ability.  I chose a path of total truth and distanced myself from her as much as I could.

Speak as though your words were creating your reality, creating what is going to happen in your life next, and of the quality of that.  

I promise, these efforts only give way to a whole series of more beneficial rewards that await you as you develop self mastery!;)

 🙂  Blessings. 

Leftover’s Anyone?;)

I mean really, even for a meal, is this anyone’s first choice?

Let’s get rid of the leftovers and serve up something new.  Fresh and new!   Something attractive and appealing to all our senses.   Let’s replace the leftovers and serve up a platter of gourmet all-culture specialty instead! 

You see this is not about a meal at all.  We are living in leftovers, lying in the leftovers, wading through, driving through, and enabling the leftovers.  We carry them around with us...everywhere.   

We are swimming in it, eating it, being intimate with it, and even learning it as new information!   Leftovers from ignorant structures created  and implemented by our ancestors.

Let’s replace them and serve up a platter of something fresh, something suitable for all our occasions, all our tastes, wants, needs and desires.  Something suitable for now, and healthy too! 🙂 

Out with the leftovers, and in with the new and improved!

WE made it up, lets make up something else instead.  We made it ALL up, for goodness sake!!!

To Be Human is to create, and solution-seeking creativity is our specialty!   That is when our brilliance comes out, when we are firing on all cylinders, unhindered by any rules and restrictions.  It is when our intellect, our energy, our spirit, and our soul is all working to the maximum, and when all our biological components are activated.  Nothing holds us back…no rules put in place, no dogma.   We are suddenly free – arguably our freest ever feeling – when we are able to do what it is that we are born to do…to create.  

We are at our most efficient at these times, in our ‘default’ setting.  This is when we come up with all manner of schemes, all crime as we know it, is human solution-seeking creativity being put into place.   Goodness knows this may still occur here and there as the situation we have is just not adequate for so many.   Better surely, we harness everyone’s interest and energy to create something better, better, best!

Everything we have done as a species, and everything we are continuing to experience, has been the result of this solution-seeking creativity…an individual’s, a community’s, a government’s, a country’s or a coalition of countries.

 However, we have not yet put in place solution-seeking creativity for all of us and our planet.   We have not yet formed a coalition of human wisdoms!

That is what we need to do.   Blessings 🙂

Human Being Expert. Me? Oh Yes.;)

I have been studying the human being my entire life, at first, for my own very survival.  “I have studied the Human, in order that I might be one”, I heard myself say to a guy in Barcelona, who smiled.

The bookshelf in the family home in Hampshire, England, had the selection of authoritative nonfiction books of the time, such as ‘The Last Two Million Years” and other biology and medical dictionaries that I was reading before I started school. To understand, and make sense of the cruel nonsense around me, was my motivation, and to answer the eternal “Why was I born?” and “How can there be a God?” questions.

I was not permitted to speak as “children are to  be seen and not heard” so I was not given chance to develop normal speech, but then ordered to speak on command and made to alter my voice to one that was approved of.  This was so traumatic for me that I blocked it out, for years, only to be released when another significant trauma allowed it forth.  It explained my vocal difficulties all throughout my life, which has given me tremendous insight of what language is, it’s very point and purpose, and it’s role in determining us.

Allowed to read and watch TV, I became an expert observer, as the difference I noticed in a facial expression change, could make the difference between life and death for me.   Considered too ugly and an evolutionary backward step – as I did not look Caucasian enough – with eyes “too chinesey” and a face and body “too negro”,  she instructed my brother to kill me and I survived one attempt after another, and was constantly nursing injuries.

There was a seemingly endless list of ridiculous sayings that were followed to the letter, that I was governed by, such as not being “worth the clothes on my back” and “at the bottom of the pecking order.” I existed in an illusion of a ‘good home’, as my mother – who I knew as ‘monster’ cared enormously, and only, of how others viewed her.

What was really going on, did not matter at all, if nobody knew, she thought.  I learnt of why and how, and the consequences of this, to a life path.   I was told lies by her, with the insistence that it was true, which was just not a situation that was tolerable. It confused me and made no sense, so I learnt easily that truth, or “adherence to what is” as I define it, was vital to me and my development. She told me outright one time, in an attempt to sway me to her thinking, that “It didn’t matter what is, only what people believe, is”   She turned to me once after an event trying “THAT, didn’t happen. ” I knew to distance myself from her even further…

My father left me in very early years, in a place I only knew as ‘the crying room’ of a British childcare facility. Up until that point, he had been my primary care giver, and I was attempting to form speech from his Hungarian singing.  He was instructed to stop singing to me – I can still recall this clearly – and he moved to Australia to live with my mother’s Aunt on her orchard in Batlow,    In Australia, he could earn a higher wage than in England, and while he paid the mortgage, my mother ‘looked after’ the children.

It was a situation where how I held a knife and fork, was more important than the role of food intake.  No free self-expression was allowed me at all, but to ‘follow orders’.  As to an activity undertaken, as to the position I held my body in, to even what expression I was allowed to be holding on my face.
I was forced to sit for long periods of time, on a hard chair, staring into a mirror, until I could hold an approved fake smile, and hold my face, in an unnatural position, that she found the most ‘tolerable’.  So tormented was I from this, that I became very interested in the man known as “elephant man’ and I adopted his technique of covering his face with a cloth, to avoid torment.  The relief was short-lived in my case, with a mean toned “what face are you making under that, take it off!”

It was about ‘making a face’ instead of ‘being a face’. Is not our face to show our true expression?  It was all so obviously wrong to me. There was no idea of what was important, critical, sensible, necessary, unnecessary, ridiculous, trivial or nonsense, to life, at all.   And all of it done with a chronic superiority complex, and with a “you don’t know how lucky you are…”  I ran away at five yrs old but returned myself and unpacked my little case, as there was nowhere else to go.
Only a while after I had started school did the attempts on my life fade out, as her plan changed. My doing well at school, so she would look an even better mother, became the new one, so I would “earn my keep”.

I wanted to find out WHAT ON EARTH WAS GOING ON.   That my mother, or be it any human being, could have become like this, when I was surrounded by a natural world that had animals still exhibiting care and following a natural sense and order.

There was no illness to describe her’s in the Medical book.  She was only doing everything that she thought she should be doing.  And, everything that she thought she could get away with doing, to have the best life that she could have for herself.   I could see easily that she was a product of her teachings, of her time, and of her parents teachings.  I would intuitively know that insults she screamed at me, were ones given her as a child, as she did, obediently to the letter, ‘what she was told’ and ‘told of’.

So, I became an acute reader of the faces of my family, the eyes, tone of voice, of frequency, all behaviors, and of feelings,  in my need to determine truth and safety for me.  My brother had time alone with her, and I would know another idea was coming, and when she had planned his next action.  I grew able to easily determine a lying face from a truthful one.

My desperate seeking of this clarity, enabled me to learn of the real needs of the Human Being to sustain us in health, of the illusions that have caused these to have become forgotten, and the whys, the causes, and of the consequences of this.  In other words, what had happened historically, and why my family was the way it was.

I learned also, that the place I went to as a child to get away, is the place that people meditate for years to get to.   It is well worth it, as it gives you other information that can only be reached from experience of this.  It enables you to receive the rewards of heightened senses, giving an improvement all round in receptivity to life.
I learned that I read at 450words/min when I was 12, but that was the limit of the test, that was given only to pass time when it was raining one day at a`primary school in Australia.  I started school in England, where my knowledge of the work as the smartest child in the class only determined where I sat in the classroom, at the speedboat or rowboat table.;)

I learned that I can pick up languages faster than most, assisting my studies with my cross cultural ability, from the Hungarian/bilingual beginning I had as a baby.  Hungarian is not like any other language with its full range of sounds, helped also by my sound sensitivity, and my pitch ability as a singer and natural musician. Though I do not consider myself fluent in any language, save that the languages of love, music and dance, I can speak, or ‘pull’ from over twenty of them.  This has allowed me insight into other language groups of human studies, providing me with a broad base of how we differ as ‘breeds’.

I am a ‘sound healer’ also, since my life journey passed through into the meta-physical, and I learnt of how I was helped through so much, by the intuitive sounding I had done since in a cot, until forbidden to do that with a “Stop making that noise child.”  It helps me to realize the point of voice, of languages at their core vibration, and what this means to us.  I learned that I also had other intuitive healing abilities that had enabled me to effectively counteract/reverse/heal, a large number of the misguided ‘non-teachings’ I was ‘taught’.;)

Being an Empath is something I relate to being, and my sensitivities to energy, my being able to read and feel another’s energy, together with all I have studied and experienced, allows me to know what is missing in the education system and general knowledge.

A life that begins with orders to ‘consider yourself last, if at all”, required me to reach a stage of choice, and do a complete turn around, to not attract further events of suffering to me aka The Law of Attraction.  I have been through, & healed through, much.  Attracting another, but very severe car accident, saw me need to heal myself from extensive, severe, multiple injuries and I further learned of what was currently known and unknown of the human being, and more of myself.  This accident took me from University, but I had found tertiary education too limiting of my interests, so I designed my own studies, from my bed, which I included with my full-time physical rehabilitation.

My studies and reading I grouped into three sections; ‘What we know we are”, “Why things are the way they are”, and “What we really are”, to give structure to my task.  I take occasion to define words carefully.
I find many could now benefit from what I know, as it seems that Humanity itself is going through the very thing I had to figure out and sort out, as a young child, only on a much bigger scale!!;)
I continue this study throughout my life, which takes me far and wide, as committed journeys do.  As I am what assesses what I see, as it passes through the files behind my eyes, I find my perspective comes easily.  And, I also absolutely know, that difficult and impossible are not the same thing at all!

It brings me pleasure to share the tales, adventures and discoveries with you.  I would like to prevent anyone from needing to experience what I have, but to be able to share in the wisdom of it, so their own lives can be greater and easier.

‘The answer to the meaning of life, the Universe & everything’ is not 42, as the Hitch Hiker’s Guide to the Galaxy told us;), and we simply cannot caretake of ourselves and our planet, or live as intended, if we do not know what we are.

If we want a dog, we can read a book all about the dog, and different breeds of dog.  Where’s the book on Being Human?  My thought’s exactly;)

Amelia : )

Human Overview Update

  • 1.Why we have the situations of deterioration.
  • 2. History behind education system.
  • 3. What can easily be done to improve it.

We have the situation on the planet now, where people can perform tasks of society, but can have little  – to no – idea of how to be a human being, or of what this is.  As a direct result, we as a species and our planet, are suffering greatly.

This comes as no surprise to me at all.  

It is in fact completely obvious to me and was expected.  Our further deterioration is anticipated unless we instil in our own society, the means to learn of ourselves.

The education system as we know it was to prepare people to perform a task, or a function, so that they could be employable, for the development of a society within a country.

Human health and wellbeing was not investigated at the time any of the systems were instigated.  There was no consideration of  a greater consequence to any actions taken, or any ability to do this.

As economies themselves are suffering the result of mass ill-health, it would seem timely for simple Human Essentials Studies to be included within the standard education system.

Historically, in Britain, children were sent to work to perform many of the menial tasks.  In fact much of the Industrial might of England of the Victorian Era, can be said to have come from the children working in mines and factories!

It was considered an improvement, with the idea of increasing the chances of better employment for the child, to have them receive education.   This was  the beginning of the school system, to prepare for work only.

The school system as we know it, was not started with any idea of preparing developing human beings to be adult human beings.  It was not even started with a knowledge of what this was.

We have succeeded in creating a society that relies upon job training, and many people have achieved retirement plans, superannuation and well deserved world holidays.

My own British family are among the people holidaying around the world now.  Their desire to travel and buy things in foreign countries creates jobs there also.  They have retired, they are doing what they feel they should be doing at their age, and what they have been ‘taught’ to do.

The thing is – and with love and respect to them – they have not the development and knowledge of what they are as human beings.  It is not even a subject they can speak on.  

My own mother was a teacher in Britain and in Australia, and she had no respect for children – by her own admission – or any idea of how to be a human.

We have a human health crisis and an Earth health crisis.  It is quite simple to me, what precautions need to be taken to prevent any further unnecessary deterioration.  And it is unnecessary.    

I would begin with immediate Human Being Essentials studies to be fit in the school systems already in place around the world.  The systems as we know them, do not need themselves to be changed – many if not all can remain.  It is only the energy and the approach that needs alteration. 

We have come a long way – Britain has come a long way – from the time when children were sent down mines and up chimneys do to the work an adult would not do.  “People have children to do their dirty work” my mother told me.  Yet still  THE ‘EDUCATION’ SYSTEM IS WAY BEHIND.

We are not killed as a matter of course if we question what we are, and this was what happened historically.  It is no longer seen as a direct threat to the throne or to the faith at rule.  If anything it is seen as a rather cool progressive thing to do.  Why not ‘raise’ our children?  Why not give our children an advantage of knowing more about themselves?

I do not want anyone to need to experience the things that I did on my learning path.  I am passionate about the education curriculums ‘Human Being Essentials’ that I am developing.  I am passionate and committed to all young humans being able to know what they are – as much as they know how to care for their dog, or their favourite hobby!

The only reason we do not already know about ourselves, is due to historical fears of invasion, as our systems of society were formed.

The fear now, is what will happen further if we do not take care of ourselves in a more responsible manner.  We can’t all sit around watching telly for the health tips of Dr Oz!  Our children certainly can’t from school.  

Do we really need to get through our school, get through all our preparation for society, and then, be able to find the time – and expense – to do our own extra curricular learning of what we are?  What it means to be a Human being? How to be a healthy one?  

Even just the word ‘Human’ is something many just cannot relate to!  How telling is that!?

It is a joy and a privilege to have a body and a life, and, knowing how to live as a human being should come as no surprise.   We cannot care for ourselves if we are ignorant of ourselves.    : -)

Talking ‘Bout Our Inventions : The Chair

  • 1. Natural rest positions for the human body
  • 2. What is ‘to sit’.
  • 3. All about  ‘the chair’
  • 4. The historic reason behind it, & original promotion.
  • 5. Healthy alternatives.

The ‘Chair’ invention is a just a sculpture we can ‘sit’ on.  

To ‘sit is to fold /bend ourselves into an unnatural resting position for us.  

Our natural sitting position is for us to fold our legs with our seat bone or pelvic base  perpendicular to the floor, and our buttocks forming a natural cushioning for us as our weight is held distributed, by the weight of our folded legs limbs in front of us.  

Our energy is able to flow unrestricted and evenly in this position.  Our head is upright, enabling a good vantage point to see all around us, our arms can rest in our lap, or be free to engage in whatever.

To sustian this position may require only a change in leg crossing, unless feet are able to be placed up onto a thigh, which can prevent any loss of fluid or energy circulation at all.

This is about as comfortable a resting position as is available to us in human form.  It is common to all human beings at all ages once a child can walk.

It is the position of choice for long periods of  non-standing or non full recline.  It is the natural position for meditations, asnd is still common in Western Society but mostly known as sitting ‘cross legged’ and restricted only to the children in schools, becoming less popular as someone ages, if never done again .

Extremely successful marketing is the reason our natural seated position has become a thing of the past.

Chairs were promoted and enforced in Britain and Western Europe,  by etiquette using the language to ” get ourselves off the floor so we did not look like savages.”  

Wood carving was enormously popular at this time, wood craftsmanship, wood carving tools created for purchase, tree felling, and mastery over the environment, to make use of that which was provided, without any strategies for long term management in place.

‘Governing by etiquette’ ‘having’ to have, being one of the ‘haves’ rather than the ‘have-nots’ was a powerful method of making sure people bought chairs.  They were a vital part of social structures, social gatherings, entertaining, and meeting.  It was noticed by all of your social status’ or ‘class’ whether you were able to afford the latest most popular chairs.

To make furniture to earn money;  to contribute to the economy;  to be a furniture maker.   These were considered at the time, with the knowledge available, more important than a human body being in a healthy rest position.

Sitting crossed legged cannot be beaten or improved upon by any invention as this ‘sit’ is just the natural way our legs fold.  People who have discomfort doing this, are those with other body health issues such as obesity, or another cause of inflexibility, which may be as simple as unfamiliarity with sitting without a chair!

We know now, that a healthy chair – or a chair that is comfortable for the human body, is a design that has us in an elevated kneeling position.

I never had a good relationship with chairs.  My life began with my mother making it clear that she considered the chair she let me sit on;) to be more valuable to her than myself!  These chairs were uncomfortable wooden adult chairs, the wrong height for a small child and without a cushion.  I wanted to kneel to raise my height to reach the table’s surface.  I was yelled at for endangering the chair with the possibility of being scratched by the buckles of my sandles and made to “sit back down properly child!

I would love aeroplanes to have us lie in a stacked tier structure, similar to something I saw on the movie the Fifth Element, when Bruce Willis  needed to travel to another planet.  Planes would be able to fit just as many people in, perhaps more, and certainly our bodies would be much more comfortable.

Yes I have chairs, but I am able to sit cross-legged in them, or to recline in another way.  Those Japanese design ones that fold up and can also be a mattress are handy too.  Do spend some time, whatever you do, NOT sitting in a chair, to allow for even weight distribution, and healthy muscular growth around the core of your back, to enable you a good postural foundation.

Encourage your little ones to feel comfy sitting on the floor, with a special cushion or coloured mat in their room in favour of a little chair.  An unsupported core or back. really is necessary to develop the musculature  for good posture later in life, to develop good musculature of the spine and each vertebrae.

I am seeing so many children, and teenagers already with deformed sloping backs, stooped necks and rounded shoulders.  I consider it necessary to teach of posture in the ‘I Am Body’ part of my Human Being Essential curriculm. School does not teach them this yet, so a home set up that is conducive to healthy development is necessary.

Remember the jingle:  body care = no chair! : )

Man And Woman Explained 1. : ‘Female Man’.

  • 1 .Female man defined.
  • 2 .Why a Woman isn’t  a Woman too commonly.
  • 3. Introduction to some of our specific abilities and differences as Man or Woman.
  • 4. Other concepts in history that altered us
  • 5. Introduction to why things have remained unchanged and unimproved.

I proudly bring all my insights available to me from being in the form woman. I began my life raised  by a fierce ‘female-man’, and I was an impressive one myself for a time.  I  have activated and awakened Woman abilities and learnings, in numerous and diverse ceremonies, and at great time and money consuming expense!;)  I consciously keep my female man tendencies in restraint and consciously keep activated my Womanly abilites, even though it is sometimes difficult, exhausting and unwelcomed.  I do it because I know it is the way…

In an earlier writing I give reference to what I call ‘female man’ most prominent on Earth at this time in history, rather than ‘Woman’.  I am choosing to begin my series on Man, Woman Explained, with this topic, to free up my use of the term.

We do not have Man and Woman on the planet at this time.   We have male and female humans, and they are living all manner of roles, as there has been no guidance for many centuries.

A female man is found in the body or form of a woman, but is reduced in who she really is, and all that she may be capable of, as she is living only as that which a patriarchal society has determined her to be capable of.

There are reasons this has come about that I will expand on as I go into the series, but they are, in brief: the way political society was organised, with change being brought about only as people wanted- and were able to demonstrate- better treatment, respect, consideration as was being received by another.

Women demonstrated what they could do, that a man can do, and they are still doing it.   We have yet to demonstrate what we do, specifically.

Our own abilities available to us as woman remain inactive, and are actually suppressed by some of our non specialties being drawn upon mostly…

Other cultures know that it is Woman who can determine /perceive consequence far more easily than Man.  Her job is to determine for the future generations.  In traditional native American Indian cultures it was woman who had the deciding vote on such matters, after the men spoke, to ensure future generations were considered, and for the long-term health possibility of the community.  A year is 365 days, one after another, to a man.  To woman it is 12 cycles.

Man’s job is to focus on the here and now.  The problem solver, the protector, the competitor, attracted to the best for himself and his kin.  Woman’s job is to consider all of it, and to then determine its effect, and the appropriate cause of action, provided by the man. She is the connector, the nurturer, the perceiver of consequence.  Our bodies differ, our brains differ, our energy differs…

Such are our roles, such is our achievable balance and our perfect design.

In my life, chock-a-block with so many different experiences and different places, where I have had opportunity to do a range of things, and cross paths with many, I have learnt what I am able to do, because I am in the form of woman.   As I have grown, my observations have always been on building my knowledge about our species.

I have observed and studied a)  What else I can draw upon that the men around me can’t.  b)  What the men around me don’t seem to have available to them.  &  c)   What the men around me do not seem to know exists.  Or much of the current modern human world, for that matter!

A ‘lady’ and a ‘gentleman’ were other created historical constructs or ‘imaginings,’ changing natural behaviours and controlled by ‘etiquette’.  Our society has formed from these British and European constructs.  Other cultures are much less detached from Man and Woman roles, as their particular history has enabled them.

Margaret Thatcher was a superb female man.  In “The Iron Lady’ film starring Meryl Streep, in one scene she plays Margaret Thatcher even saying something like “the problem with society is more people are feeling now instead of thinking.”  She says “Thoughts are where it’s at.  Thoughts turn into words, words turn into actions, actions turn into habits…”

The thing is, that was a HUGE error of the time. It is feelings that govern our thoughts.   Feelings determine our thoughts.  Woman is the feeling specialist, where Man is the thinking specialist.   Sure we can do both these things, but we are better suited for one or the other, as is our design!

When I am needing to go into my mind, in answer to a man’s question perhaps, as he would do to another man, I can feel myself reducing my ability as a woman.  I can feel myself cutting off from what else I have available to me.

When I drive, I am aware I lose 10-15% focus when I am bleeding, as I am a cyclic being and I differ day by day within a month, as is my design.  Man is the day by day by day one of us, so he can do what needs doing, see around corners;) act fast and now.  He cannot make the best decision for everyone on his own, he is not designed to.  He cannot consider many things at once as his brain specialises on focussing, and is compartmentalized in structure.

A woman’s brain has many more connections going on.  Man’s job is to focus, woman’s job is to connect.  Of course we can do both of these things, but we do one better than the other. When we do only one thing…we do it better.  

We each specialise, we each do somethings better than the other, so that when we come together, we are even better than if we were our own.’

History made us need to do what we could, to better our situation then.   Our ancestors did not have another choice.  What was done then, was the best and only thing available at the time.   The problem is only that we  have not  had an opportunity to correct it yet.

tbc…The Man, Woman Explained series…. : ))

What’s Up With The Economy?

  • 1. ‘Economy’ defined
  • 2. How did it start?
  • 3. The Four Big  Mistakes made with money
  • 4. A historical overview in brief.
  • 5. Problems with perspective.
  • 6. Our solution- seeking creativity!
  • 7. No need to fear.

“Economy” is an invisible noun.  In language, when we find a noun that is not a place, person or object, but the name of something invisible, we are made aware that it is a creative construct of human imagination.

 The economy is a fabulous example for an earlier writing, of our own creativity getting the better of us.  Definitely also an example of where we need to reign it in, and make the necessary adjustments to our own invention with our wiser and wider perspective.

A reminder of vocabulary, that  ‘nouns’ are places, people and things, and ‘proper nouns’ are names of these.

Making people reliant and subservient to money is something that was done historically by force.  It is something that was not planned in the long-term, with the long-term in mind, or with a picture of what the long-term may become.  It was done in a narrow and focussed way, in a way that would build a perceived strength of an individual country.  It was done without consideration of any consequences.

The largest sums/gold were mainly for exchange of arms.

To make people dependent on earning an income, they were forcibly evicted from their own homes and lands, unless they began to pay ‘taxes’ to the ‘crown’ or declared head of state/ruler, equivalent to our ‘rent’ and ‘rates’ words used today.

Mistakes with the Invention we call money.

1. the first mistake made with the invention called money or currency, is that it was given no use-be date.  I consider it a brilliant idea, to have a convenient form of exchange or trade, if you did not want my oranges, or I your beans.  Then to be able to exchange this ‘token’ for goods, and with a use by date clearly indicated.

2. the second mistake  made with money was when it was able to make its own money.  When it was given ‘interest’ making ability. This idea was a solution as it was wanted by others – who didn’t ‘own it’ to be used, and to attract more others to let them use it also.

3. the third mistake  made with money, was when things were ‘floated’ and sold off or privatized.  As money was wanted and needed even more so to be made available.

4. the fourth mistake made with money but linked to no. 3, is that money now makes money faster that a human can.

The economy was not designed  so that it could last as it is, and quite simply, it cannot.  It was designed without any forethought to consequence.   

It was designed and implemented by men, fully focussed on a project, and without an ability to ascertain consequence.  This is something someone in the form Man cannot actually do so well as  a Woman, and he is not designed to.   Man is the problem solver in the immediate here and now.  

Determining consequence is way easier for a woman to do, as her form enables her this. (See my series of writings on Men & Women Explained*.)

In some other cultures, such as Native American Indian tribes, those in the form of Woman decided/voted after the men, as it was considered that their job was to foresee and determine for the future generations.  

At this time historically, no women were involved in any of the decision processes in our predominantly English ruled society.  Or if there were, they were doing so more as a what I call a female- man*, or a woman figure-head only.

There was not the understanding of ourselves,as Human Beings and our abilities, as there is available today.  It was a society ruling and living in fear and suspicion and mistrust.  It was not a society capable of determining what was best all-round for all individuals and the organism earth as a whole.

There was intention to take in the larger picture, and an awareness that it was a good idea, but it was not humanly possible for these men to do.  The ‘largest’ picture they were able to comprehend, was that of the state – their own ‘state’.  Legislation by these men clearly indicates they wished for this , as representative of the very largest consideration possible to these people.  At this time in history, it was still unimaginable what the scale of the world was and if it was flat or another shape altogether.

The way I see it, bringing the largest perspective into it, that is easier for me in my form as a Woman, and with my knowledge of all that we are as Humans, I say let’s declare there is a problem, so that we can involve our solution-seeking creativity to sort it out.  While we are still fiddling around and trying to pretend to “balance” it, we can’t come to a real and proper solution.

There is nothing that we cannot do, to bring about a solution to something that came about, as a result of our own creativity.

To Be Human Is To Create.  It is where we are at our absolute best.  

As many of us already know, we attract things to us, as the vibrational energy beings that we are.  Wealth and abundance are not limited to our money invention, and nor is a state of lack.  Having the faith that we will attract to us, that which resonates with us, and keeping ourselves emotionally and energetically in good health, will see us through any perceived challenging time.  It is only ignorance (without knowledge) that has some people assume  the human invention ‘money’ is the only wealth there is!

 LET’S  ENABLE  OURSELVES  TO  USE  OUR  SOLUTION-SEEKING CREATIVITY.  LET’S  NAME  THE  PROBLEM  TO  BE  SOLVED!  : )

The Real Reason ‘Marriage’ Was Invented.

  • Marriage defined,
  • how & why marriage was invented,
  • the argument against ‘gay’ marriage discussed in light of this,
  • the greater benefits of viewing all marriage energetically. 

For the last few days I have come across Gay Marriage discussions, the arguments for and against and I feel to share the reasons behind why the institution Marriage was brought into our societal structure to begin with, in Western – predominantly British European influenced – Society.  

As there was no understanding by those in positions of influence or rule in British society as it developed, of what  Being Human actually was, bodily acts such as sex had become viewed as distasteful by those in the middle and upper classes.

As more and more emphasis was on the mind, the development of society and the economy,  any distractions of bodily needs were controlled by language use and by etiquette (socially appropriate behaviors).

Clothing had developed to disguise even the body’s shape beneath, and feet and hands were kept covered, as much to hide the animalistic fingers and toes, as to protect against the cold.

There was much discussion and grave concern amongst those in power of what to do about the decline in reproduction – of the very people they wanted to have children.  Sex was still just as popular among the lower class.

The concept Marriage was invented to encourage procreation, as the ‘solution- seeking’ creativity.  To bring together the bodily act, with the sanctity of a church, so that people who knew nothing of themselves as sexual beings, would feel it was an honourable, godly, and patriotic thing to do.

“For God and Country to lay down and think of England”. To “‘do the dirty deed” It was your service and duty to your country, and it became an acceptable thing to do, was incorporated successfully into society, and Married people soon were given different considerations, standards of dress, etiquette and so on.

The bodily act had become considered so distasteful and misunderstood, that it was considered necessary to repopularise its necessity.  ‘Within The Sanctity of Marriage’ was the chosen creation for this.

A man – the father – gave his daughter to another man – she wore white,  as lacy as wanted, for purity, and a ceremony held in a church.  It was performed by a representative of God, as high as you own station in life ‘deserved’ be it a minister or a bishop.  How could anyone feel ‘dirty’ after that?   Everyone knew they would be having sex, it was out in the open, deemed acceptable and no need for gossip.   Sexual activity had successfully become part of an honourable betrothal.

So marriage was invented because the act of sex, of joining, of  divine Union had become so unpopular and misunderstood, and knowledge of anyone engaging in it, was used to degrade them and could lead to loss of station/ respect.   And yes, it was invented to encourage sexual relations between and Man and a Woman.

Gay/Homosexual people really just want it to acknowledged by their society, that they contribute to, and who is meant to represent them, respectful acknowledgement that they are now joined together, and are energetically in Union.   That they are now a couple.

Marriage for a Man and a Woman, would also be better served and more accurate, if it also was considered a Union of energy.  These two are now sustaining one another energetically, contributing to the lives of each other energetically, forsaking all others..

As marriage was invented to encourage sexual activity for child-bearing, it does need to be redefined if we are to expect Gay marriage to be accepted everywhere.  Many people who completely accept that some of us are gay/homosexual do not want to, or feel it appropriate, to need to be called into question to debate another’s right to engage in whatever sexual activity.  This is exactly what is required, however, due to the historical relevance of the origins of Marriage.

Energetic realization of Marriage would also make it easier to transition to a healthier attitude with regard to sexual activity, as discussion opened and receptivity increased.  Marriages would be more successful – be more easily successful, if understood in terms of energy.

For me Marriage is a commitment between two that they are now wanting to share their energy, for the better of each other.  Sustaining one another.  If one is weaker, both are weakened, and to strengthen your other, strengthens you.

Energetic realization, is the solution.  Energetic realization is the healing way to look at Marriage, regardless of who enters into it, Man & Man, Man & Woman, Woman & Woman.   Homosexuality has biologically causes, and while there are some people who are just living a homosexual life because it is easier for them, with the knowledge that they have, I predict we will have an increase in the numbers of us who are homosexual.

The growing baby gets all the necessary hormones to become a man, from within the mother,  and while we are in a health crisis, sometimes all the available nutrients for a baby, will not be available at their optimum levels for all.

What unites all Human Beings is our need and want to love, and to be loved.  Marriage is the way for society to regard two Human Beings, who are joined together energetically for the benefit of each other….and the society! : )

An energetic realization of being human,  can only bring solutions to every aspect of life shared. : )

Replacing Eating Confusion With Eating Clarity!

A reminder to us of why we eat, to bring clarity after years/centuries of confusion.

We in Human form are the kings/queens/managers and caretakers of all our cells, thoughts, emotions, abilities, and energy.   We have a body for the duration of our life here on Earth until it tires out and must cease activity.

We must take care of it, water it, provide it with nutrients our cells require for functioning, so that it can get us about.

As humans we are creativity, and there is no better example of how confused we can become from our own creativity, than that of our confusion with eating.   Then there is all the confusing information about ‘dieting’ itself, and how to lose the extra physical substance we add onto ourselves when we ‘mess up’ our eating.  So many of us are unhealthy because of what we are putting into our mouths, as food.

But first of all, relax!  There is historical explanation for this widespread confused state that Humanity is experiencing, and how health got left behind.

To make that which is nutritious for us, palatable and digestible.   That is what we are meant to be doing and have all the ability to do.  Making foods that provide us with our energy requirements, tasty to eat, rather than eating something just because it  is tasty!!

Much confusion has arisen simply from historic emphasis on economic growth over health.   As people travelled to explore and seek new lands, trade resulted in new foods, new dishes, new potential markets for money-making ideas.   The concepts “breakfast, luncheon, dinner” are just words that were not around when we first had meals.  They were made popular with economic growth – the difference between ‘the haves’ and ‘the have-nots’ – a fancy word given to describe a meal you knew you were going to have.   Other words “tea, supper, brunch”, all words to describe a meal.

Massive popular advertising ensued.  To have these things, to be able to eat these foods ‘made you better’, ‘made your life better’ , and the use of ‘governing by etiquette’ had it that you wanted these things for when you invited people over, so you were ‘seen to be’ doing well/better.  It was an enormous all-consuming continual advertising campaign, as the media grew, and as inventions enabled it more and more coverage for greater distribution and influence.

These days we can look back with the insight that, when there is less choice, and when there is less bombardment of stimuli, we know that life is actually easier.

We have now experienced the disadvantages of many of these new food products, and many of us are going against the popular tide, returning to the healthy reliability of natural foods,  Interestingly the popular tide itself is now turning, and ‘healthy natural organic places are also the  favourite places of the elite and those who can afford more.

It has become so that those without any income at all, and those in the top income tier are eating natural foods!  What does this tell us about food and use of food for economic promotion?  It says “Been there, done that, and now we know better”!!

All of this extra confusing information aside, remember that we are fully capable of nurturing our bodies – you are fully capable of it.  The size of our brain potential, our creativity ability, and our hand structure, all make it so that we can all do this.

back to basics

As we are creativity, and competition has led us to focus this with food and selling of food,  much that is available for purchase I do not consider to be food anymore.

What once began as a food, I now consider has been turned into an artwork. What we see, smell, taste and even hear as we bite into it, is all valid and lovely for us to experience.   Is it a taste sensation artwork?  Full of sugar for an instant, overwhelming experience or high  A visual artwork?  To marvel at the colours and construction.   Or is it a textural experience, with a warmth and an icy cold, or a crunch with something soft?

The above pic I chose to share the famous cake stores in Acland Street St Kilda, Melbourne Australia.   There are many examples around the world of stores with displays of colourful creativity on display.   The chocolate shops in Edinburgh, the pastry shops in France, delicatessens around the world, showing wonderfully creative inventions, expertly produced and packaged….

I get a high from seeing such craftsmanship and skill.  I enjoy the colour combinations, the combination of textures and ingredients.  I can really appreciate the human skill involved.  I love it when people do their best to bring out an idea.  I feel nurtured by experiencing this and feel energetically lifted and inspired.

However, I do not want to eat it.  I do not want to put it inside my body as fuel.  I do really enjoy staring in the windows.  I do go inside the shops to enjoy the creativity…the art, as though I am in a gallery.   It is something that I do not want to clog up my intestines with at all.  The most I would do is taste it, but I find I can practically taste it with my imagination as I gaze at the art, to make consuming  it unnecessary.  My spinach and rice creations are a far better fuel.

how basic?

As we want our body to be energetically maintained.  We want to eat that which gives us energy, with minimal energetic loss.

This also means eating what makes us feel good….not just what tastes good.

Using your creativity to help you to feel good.  Or do you eat to feel good?  Why are you only feeling good when you eat?  You are distracting yourself from the energy/feelings/thoughts that are ripe to be cleared from you.

I go more into preoccupation with eating in another writing, but for a long time now,(centuries) it has been one of the few acceptable body enjoyments we have been allowed while being in what I call a predominant Mind existence and a Body Denial existence

As a human being you have the ability to know that it is your responsibility to look after your body, and to be able to give your body the food it requires.  You have the potential to look after all of your needs.  The intent of wanting to know this, creates the place in you, to receive it.

As energy beings, we have the responsibility to govern our energy and food mastery plays a bit part in this.

I LOVE having a fit body.  The ease it gives me as I live my life.  The urge I get to run up a hill…or roll down one.  To go quickly from a sitting to a lying position to a dance position.  To be spontaneous, to swing from a vine if I came across one!

All of this I can take for granted that I can do, because I keep my body well.  I feed and water it regularly like it is my favourite pet. I look after it with more care than the concern with which I fuel, oil and air pressure check my car.;)

It was not always this way for me.

I was raised being force-fed a set amount – a ‘child serve’ – and the equivalent size to my brother who was over 3 years older.  I was not allowed to leave the table until I had “finished my plate”.  I was pestered and verbally insulted as the norm as my mother and brother sat watching me the entire time they were also at the table.  No other conversation aside from abusing me , ever occurred, as in fact a conversation ability itself  was lacking and limited to critical comments/attack on what was seen, but more on that another time.;)

It was a hard wooden adult’s chair and the food just got colder and colder.  I did not often like the meals prepared, that repeated over and over again with no variation.  Though it was too much for me to eat, it was interpreted as “down right disobedience” if I did not “finish” my plate.

A great Aunt once took pity on me.  Seeing me still at the table a long time after everyone else had left, staring at the cold heap on my plate, she silently removed it.  This happened one time, but it was only once she or someone else was around us at this time, or any other!

I was not given opportunity to learn my food intake and individual needs when first relating to food, and it has taken time of healing and discovery.   We each are different and need to learn to respect our body’s process of digestion.

Approaching ourselves in an enquiring way, allowing for our body’s needs to be different from what is on telly, allowing to ‘listen’ to our body, allows a connection to develop that alters our mind-set, and makes it easy to care for our body the way we need to.

I learned early on in the family home, that the only way to be able to leave the table and to get away from these people was to eat the food, then to vomit it back up, when I had got to safety upstairs.  I began doing this perhaps as early as seven years old, and my own creativity had given me this solution-seeking suggestion.

This was such an upside down, backwards, Alice in Wonderland, madness nonsense household, where it was more important – to the extent of being drilled in a shouting voice – how you were holding your knife and fork, than a place to give your body the food you required for health and well being.  And most interestingly of all, this was all done, by an educated British woman, doing what she had been taught.

I feel it is possibly the way people begin bulimia, that they think of it themselves, without needing to be given the idea.  It is actually a clever solution, to bypass a bodily function, and it can be a helpful skill if you consume something harmful to ingest.  It takes a certain amount of thinking ‘outside the box’ and the anorexics and bulimics I came across in various hospitals that I crossed paths with, on my own healing journeys from a range of accidents/injuries, were always the most creative, interesting and intelligent girls.

My experience of my introduction to food and eating, was just another part of the battle for me to be living in this home, aiming on being the best Human Being I could be, while having to live under this ruling nonsense around me.  Beginning with no understanding of it, led me to need to learn from scratch.

I approach eating as providing myself with my nutritional requirements.  I do not eat for any other reason.  I was the manager of a food co-operative in Canberra in the late 80’s, and I learned much from this position.  The enjoyment I get from being fit and healthy and being able to rely on my body, far outweighs for me, any enjoyment I get from a brief sensation when I am consuming something.

To be able to manifest all that we can be, to be able to contain all that we bring down to the earth plane, does require a high level of physical health, posture, and energetic health.

If in doubt don’t eat it.   

Of course enjoy taste sensations, but know them to be that, something for your senses to enjoy.  Your eyesight sense, your taste bud sense, the aroma, for your sense of smell.  However, it is arguably not food as it is not fuel, that is mostly beneficial to intake or consume.  A case of do the benefits outweigh the possible cons! : )

I have been a vegetarian for twenty-five years or more, vegan for some of it, and mostly an eater of fresh food.  For me, the feeling originally was such that I did not want to continue to eat animals, as I felt badly.  Therefore, it was energetically an improvement for me to decide to cease eating animals.  All other animals were more family to me than my own family.;)

I discovered soon after the many benefits of a vegetarian diet.  Many people are being conscious of environmental consequences and eating free range organic produce, including meat.  It is energetically responsible for us, not to cause ourselves energetic discomfort from what we eat.  We want to choose what contains for us the most energy also, choosing the healthiest, most energy filled choice/specimen.

We are meant to know the source of our food, and we contain within ourselves all the potential ability to know this.  If you are caused to feel uncomfortable, when you learn of the source of a food, if it does not feel right or if it feels agitating, know that you are meant to find another food source.

It is all energy, and our responsibility as Human Beings, is to maintain ourselves in energetic health.  Part of this energetic health, is our natural responsibility to the larger energetic organism we live on, Earth! : )

If I cannot feel the energy from a ‘food’ , I do not consider it a food at all.   : )