Fast-track to Joy!

  • A quick tip / ‘how-to’ emotionally detach from what may be bothering you, to refreshen your life experience/day!

Here’s a jo/neat trick I learnt from a near-death experience.

Imagine you are another spirit, that has just landed in your body for the day.  You are gone, you have vacated your life for this day.

Remember that what is imagined by you, is just as real for your psyche/consciousness, as if it were really occurring.

Imagine the other spirit, is taking in’ who’ they need to be – or pass themselves off as – to not arouse suspicion.;)    Take a look around you, look at your hands as though you are looking at them for the first time.

Such as : Ok…so you are in this family, right…..in this house, ok…..in that  job, uh-huh.  Oh and with that responsibility, got it…….that dog is yours….etc

This spirit gets opportunity to be here on Earth, only by taking on you life, and only for a day.

They are super-thrilled for this opportunity!  They do not care whose body or life they have access to, in order to be here!

Nothing that happened before this time exists.

Notice how you feel.

This feeling, is the most similar that I can describe, for what happens in one of the stages we go through, after we experience sudden and/or unexpected death.  Many others, who also have experienced near-death, can report the same thing.

It gives us the ability to look on our own lives with absolute clarity and perspective.  All emotional attachment  leaves us during this time.

I still consider this to be one of the greatest lessons from my near-death experiences, and I am grateful I can enter into this knowing in a second flat.;)

So, go ahead!  Imagine you have just arrived here on earth, borrowing your body for a day!   Feel the difference.  Feel the detachment you may have.  Feel and notice the freshness or gained enthusiasm you may have.

Take advantage of it to the hilt!  You are using wisdom to maximise your life experience…as you are meant to do!  If need be, do it everyday. : )

The cult British comedy Red Dwarf, ( I was a huge fan!)  had an episode called Body Swap, and if you have seen that, you’d be on track and all the easier for your imagining! : )

All About An Apology.

  • Apology defined
  • Why they work
  • Apologies as energy
  • How to maximize an apology
  • Tips to make speaking one easy

An apology by way of saying “I am sorry” is a gift of energy, to someone who has received an energetic injury.

An energetic injury, or anything that has caused hurt or pain emotionally, requires energy to heal.   This energy comes from our own being, but can be dramatically assisted by energy from another, or may be delayed if none is forthcoming when it is perceived required, or known how it would assist.

Every time we see,  hear, or hear-of, the individual who has caused us harm, it is a drain on our energy if any feelings arise that  need to be dealt with.  A “sorry” or an apology removes this from happening, as we are able to remove ‘the warning’ of them from our being.

It is our wisdom, by way of memory associations, that gives us reminders of who to keep away from.  Our whole organism assists us in keeping ourselves well.

The word ‘apology’ as a descriptive statement after the fact.  To say “I apologize’ is not actually itself an apology at all”  An apology is an expression of regret for any action that caused someone to be energetically injured.

“I am sorry for all and any of my actions that have caused you harm( and I love you).” is wording that I suggest, to maximise the healing strength of this much needed and FREE energetic wonder! : )

Energetic responsibility is all an apology is.  Some cultures/language groups are able to make apologies freely available.  Others guard them as though their very sense of self worth depended upon them never needing to say the word “sorry”!

Unfortunately due to complication from economic responsibility that may result from lawsuits, compensation claims, and the like, recognition that we require verbal sound frequencies from just hearing the word “sorry” has not been realized.

I find that my habit of using the word “sorry” as well as “pardon” when I miss what someone has said, had an enormous effect on my own healing, as in my own family no one said the word.  My mother even had to go so far as to lie to insist that what had occurred – that required her to say sorry – hadn’t even happened!!

Please release yourself from any intellectual judgement that may come to you, and try saying it as often as needed.

I found it a useful technique in my own healing to at first use the word “sorry” in place of “pardon” when I misheard or missed what another had said.  “Sorry” was so not used in my family home, that my mother even had to deny the occurrence of what had happened that required her to apologize in the first place!

All it is, is energetic responsibility.  We are energetic beings, and it is as helpful and as healing to say, for our own learning needs and personal growth, as for the one who needs to hear it.  : )

Time For Energetic Realisation!

  • Introduction to human beings as energy
  • Introduction to historical influences affecting our incorrect viewpoint, and dismissal of feelings
  • Introduction to how men and women differ

Is a change to knowing ourselves as an energetic organism so hard?  I think not and feel not!  We have only had a vague dismissal of it as we are all so fundamentally human, us Human Beings…;)

Though feelings supposedly didn’t exist, they are one of the most important descriptions to add to a court case when it is being heard.

We all love a love story, and love is a feeling…  But feelings having ‘no tool by which they could be measured’, and an emphasis on a patriarchal and logical ‘thinking’ dominated society, put feelings out of context in Britain.  It is important to note, that the English language, trails behind the others, in terms of energetic realisation and in vocabulary of it.

Historically women and folk of other cultures, were allowed a more active and acknowledged role  in the English man’s societal structure, but not one that contributed, or brought any changes to, its structure, to incorporate a more appropriate and balanced view of life.

There was not the knowledge at that time of the roles of each of our sex, or the qualities and strengths offered by those from other cultures/language groups.

Woman were allowed consideration and given the vote, as they proved themselves to be able to do some things, as well as a man. Still to this day, a woman is determined to be that which a patrichal society declares her to be capable of.

She is yet to be truly appreciated for what she herself is, by society, that a man is not.  This is precisely the balance and consideration that our life giving planet requires.  We as human kind are part of the greater energetic being that is the organism, Earth, and we also have a guardianship role.

Both sexes from other cultures/language groups, similarly, were declared capable enough to be incoorporated into English man’s societal structure, and given the vote, after proving that they could do some things as well as an Englishman.

Yet songs about love are as popular today as they were when the foundations of our society was being formed.   Feelings are something that we have let drive us and leed us astray;) be we Man Woman, Englishman or otherwise.

There came a distinct time in political history, when it was actually considered that the English man ‘had it sorted’, and there were no further changes to the structure and organisation of the political party system, from then on.  Parties and policies changed but the organisation did not.

Many years later only, women and both sexes from other cultures and language groups were allowed involvement.  As a woman it is plainly obvious to me that the system was lacking from the very beginning.

As a woman it is easy for me to see how much has led to the situations we have happening at the moment.  With all due respect to my fellow-man – I am a lover of men!- a woman’s imput is needed, to ensure the longterm health and wellbeing of all concerned.

A man’s focussed attention ability and problem solving is very compartmentalized.  He likes, and requires, things to be dealt with individually, singularly, and in a given set form and structure.  Life is not like that however.

Life needs Man to use exactly the skills that he has, in consultation with Woman.  She can, can far more easily:

1.  determine consequence, a woman can naturally hold a larger perspective and picture for consideration.

She is naturally able to easily hold together what is harvesting where and when, is connected to the earth and moon rhythms and is herself a cyclic being, altering and changing according to where she is in her bleeding rhythm.  Man is structurally, and necessarily, a day by day by day being.

2.   a woman has healing knowledge available to her, to keep the community in health, as well as greater ease at receiving ancestral wisdom from her intuition and her secondary connection to the light, that comes from her womb space.

3. a woman does not have playing inside her the very drives that can prevent a man from considering the best outcome for all concerned.

It is a man’s role to be hardwired to get what he can for himself and his, as he is the protector.  A woman is hardwired to care for those around her, as she is the nurturer.  Man is thinking dominant, woman is feeling dominant.  Balance is key for survival.

In another writing I specifically name the time in British history and explain in more detail, to demonstrate the inadequacies of the structure that our own party system is based upon.  I do so simply to show that there is no need to be holding onto it.  I do so to show that we can do much better now.

Now, we have the education and literacy and knowledge spread across so many people and counties, that was not available to the ones who formed the structure we are living by.  It would be so easy to create, and to implement, a system that truly honours us as the amazing species that we are, and that can lead us to grow and thrive.

A consequence of much that has gone before, is that we have many living in the bodies of women as what I term ‘female men’.  This is only because they and their families and communities have not yet had the opportunity and learning to embrace ‘woman’ and allowed comfortably for her development.

Fortunately we have a huge feminine wisdom movement growing in strength internationally.  There is no need for anyone to fear the development of a woman being all that she is needed to be.  Woman is the lover of men, and I can assure all men, that when they have experienced a woman, they will never want a ‘female man’ ever again!

Let’s leave behind that which is seeing us decline.  It is stupid and ignorant not to do so, and a whole lot more fun to see us and our planet progress to thrive!  As we are meant to do.  As is completely possible to do! : )

When You Are Ripest for Healing!

Have you ever had a thought that keeps coming to you, that you do not put there? 

Have you ever had something surprising enter your thought space, that has nothing to do with what you are doing?

Have you ever had a very upsetting memory enter your thought space after a period of fun, joy or sexual release?

I am guessing you are aware of this occurring, in what would be the space between the thoughts of your own choosing.

What is fabulous about the human body – one of a multitude – is the automatic tendency toward healing and these thoughts are coming to you with this purpose.

You are ready to deal with the issue related to the thoughts, to process through and feel the feelings, in order that they are then released from your body and being.  As you are a continuing flow and movement of energy, as soon as there is opportunity for further release and growth within you, this happens automatically.

Take some contemplative time to ask yourself what you need to learn from the thought.

1. What is it telling you.  What are you telling you?

2.What message does it bring?

3.What action is required to be taken?

4. Is there anything else you need to know from it?

Then that’s it!  Be done with it!  Over! Gone!

It is as though you are a vessel with an opening to release what it is that does not serve you any more, feelings that you once had, aggravation that you once experienced.  It rises to the top of this vessel in order that it may spill over the side, just coming to your awareness when it reaches the top, so that you may facilitate its efficient removal.

It comes and it comes, and greater joy may allow more of it.  When it is stuck or unexpressed for too long we are ‘depressed’.  It is a life long responsibility for us to maintain ourselves in energetic health, just as we know we will be sick if we stop excreting from our physical vessel, our digestive tract.

Waste product = what doesn’t serve us anymore and would benefit us to leave = human waste as feces = human waste as old stuck emotion.

Our energetic presence has been misunderstood and unrecognized historically, as it was not able to be observed with the human eye.  Fortunately there are wondrous techniques available now to assist the removal of this energy (also correctly named: stuck emotion, hurtful feeling, nasty association, emotional pain or agony).

Tapping or Emotional Freeing Techniques work at physically stimulating energy points, sound releasing is a fave of mine, where you release the sound of your energy on the exhale of your breath and there is just venturing into it, allowing yourself to feel it through.  Give yourself a time limit, then a reward!    You can come back to it at any time.   You are then being the manager/mistress of your cells as you are meant to be.

Sexual energy use and the pleasure that creates vibrating throughout the body is an exceptional means to dislodge stuck energies, and quite the purpose!  I dedicate entire blogs to this, as there is so much more that needs to be shared regarding our sexuality.

For me, I just allow time to do my energetic ‘housekeeping’ and auric cleaning.   At the moment I am needing to allow to leave me, energy from being pushed down stairs countless times as a child.  There was at no time that I was able to release this from me before, or at the time I was living in such danger, and it is ripe to leave me this week especially.

I have never had so many thoughts or memories of all the stair case falling enter my thought space before!   All it takes is for me to lower my head a distance, and my cellular memory is providing me with the association, when I was in that position, of what I needed to do quickly as I prepared myself to fall.   I am very pleased to be able to release it now.  I understand completely that my being is able to allow this to leave me now.

I have become very familiar with the process, I do not have any judgement of it as it leaves me, and I look forward to how I feel afterward.  I can feel an internal lightening, and I can feel joy take the place of the eager to be discarded or released, stuck, old, used, irrelevant, hanging about, passe, unwanted, unneeded….get it?;))…energy, in the form of emotion.

It is not scary.  It is you, or rather, for your instruction.

It is you wanting you to let it go.  It is you telling you it is strong enough, and completely ready, to do what must be done for it to go.   It is an act of self love, to give yourself the time and energy to release it, so that you can reap the rewards of the stuck energy being gone.   The more you have suffered, the more space inside you have created to receive as joy! x   : )